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What a ****** load of crap! A bunch of jerks the whole lot of you! I've been watching this thread silently and I wasn't going to comment but I can't hold this in any longer. So basically what all of you are saying is that a good looking woman above her thirties who is single, is a definite cheater, a no good wash up, only good for banging a few times and could only date a young guy as a trophy! What a bunch of bullshit! And to think that I ever thought some of you guys were decent at some point!

Eh.. Not really what I thought. It's certainly possible she's in it for just a quick fling but I don't think we know enough to really say for sure.

I agree with Jeremiah, age shouldn't matter with love (which I greatly hesitate to say considering when I agreed with him that videogames absolutely do not cause real world violence he just kept arguing that I was wrong and didn't understand science...)

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Welp... I think this thread has officially hit the tipping point. Time to call it a day.

 

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What a ****** load of crap! A bunch of jerks the whole lot of you! I've been watching this thread silently and I wasn't going to comment but I can't hold this in any longer. So basically what all of you are saying is that a good looking woman above her thirties who is single, is a definite cheater, a no good wash up, only good for banging a few times and could only date a young guy as a trophy! What a bunch of bullshit! And to think that I ever thought some of you guys were decent at some point!

 

Hint: only those who are in teenage or 30s or above said that. Not the 20s comrades.



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What a ****** load of crap! A bunch of jerks the whole lot of you! I've been watching this thread silently and I wasn't going to comment but I can't hold this in any longer. So basically what all of you are saying is that a good looking woman above her thirties who is single, is a definite cheater, a no good wash up, only good for banging a few times and could only date a young guy as a trophy! What a bunch of bullshit! And to think that I ever thought some of you guys were decent at some point!

 

I think you are exaggerating...

 

and what would you prefer us think?

 

I mean, in my firsthand experience, most women who are single in their mid to late 30's or later are either:

-Divorced

-Omega Female

-Dysfunctional love life

-Baggage Trains

-Brutally overcommited in other regards

 

For instance, not to long ago, a few people tried to push this woman on me who was in her late 30's. She was divorced and had 3 kids, the oldest of which was in his early teens. You want me to go from having no children to raising a kid in his early teens? **** no!

 

And I only believe she had cheat potential because she was a doctor. Women in such high places are often less patient with relationships and have the means to act on such impatience. If she was in a more down to earth position, say, a standard cube job, I wouldn't be inclined to believe she was a cheat.

 

Of course there are exceptions (there's always exceptions), but please, do tell us you viewpoint.



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Just covering mah ass here.

 


Who gets emotionally involved straight off?

 

Go out with her, have sex, lots of sex, then during that time decide if you like her or not.

 

She's 37 years old, I bet you could ask her without her being offended or anything.

 

Like "errr, so do you want to make this happen? Or is it just for the sex?" It's a win win dude.

 

But then again.

 

Age is never a factor when considering idiocy.

 

I'll be an idiot until I'm 87.

 

I'm an advocate of most kinds of relationships. Physical, emotional but never ever never ever abusive.

 

That's not cool.

 

Seriously. Stop it.

 

@OneWomanArmy.

 

I don't see anything wrong with an older woman wanting to go out with a younger man for a simple physical relationship, or, like you say, a "boy toy." If us men can treat women like objects I feel it's only fair for the reverse to be the same. The problem is, dudes never make that clear, women do. So you guys are cooler than us in that regard xD

 

Sex in the end, is great. I think more people should have it and be less offended in its mentioning.

 

Not directed at you, of course, just in general.

 

Damn you FOX!


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What a ****** load of crap! A bunch of jerks the whole lot of you! I've been watching this thread silently and I wasn't going to comment but I can't hold this in any longer. So basically what all of you are saying is that a good looking woman above her thirties who is single, is a definite cheater, a no good wash up, only good for banging a few times and could only date a young guy as a trophy! What a bunch of bullshit! And to think that I ever thought some of you guys were decent at some point!

So is this confirmation for TheBunzxOneWomanArmy?



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So is this confirmation for TheBunzxOneWomanArmy?

 

Now that I think of it, it may just be that.


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I think you are exaggerating...

 

and what would you prefer us think?

 

I mean, in my firsthand experience, most women who are single in their mid to late 30's or later are either:

-Divorced

-Omega Female

-Dysfunctional love life

-Baggage Trains

-Brutally overcommited in other regards

 

For instance, not to long ago, a few people tried to push this woman on me who was in her late 30's. She was divorced and had 3 kids, the oldest of which was in his early teens. You want me to go from having no children to raising a kid in his early teens? **** no!

 

And I only believe she had cheat potential because she was a doctor. Women in such high places are often less patient with relationships and have the means to act on such impatience. If she was in a more down to earth position, say, a standard cube job, I wouldn't be inclined to believe she was a cheat.

 

Of course there are exceptions (there's always exceptions), but please, do tell us you viewpoint.

 

Well said. Although I'd go further and say that single mothers are more radioactive than Chernobyl in general regardless of age. This piece explains why: https://happybachelo...to-single-moms/

 

As much as I find certain older/middle aged women suitable for bedroom recreation, having to deal with another man's "saved game" is a sure pain.



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Now that I think of it, it may just be that.

It's something about the vibe their posts to each other gives off.

 

Welp. Looks like i found some inspiration to write a film script for a romcom that's partly based on their interactions with one another.



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Just to clarify: I'm not talking about Bunz's relationship in particular, I'm talking in general terms. I was very unlucky with my marriage, now I said to myself that I would never ever talk about it openly here on bsn.. but what the hell.. here goes: I got married at 19, I was in love, I hurried up but it turned out to be an alcoholic, an abusive alcoholic who beat me up and I stayed married for 14 years, he was jeaolus, I couldn't talk to anyone almost, he watched my every move, and yes I stayed for 14 years but people... it's really not that easy to leave a marriage, especially not when he looked perfect in public and made me look as the bad guy, like I was lying. But then my oldest sister died, long story short, I got four brain surgeries from stress and decided life was too short and just left! So you see.. a woman can be single and still good looking and committable and without kids and nice and etc... And I'm not really that single anymore, I am with a guy, I was just talking in general people.


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Well said. Although I'd go further and say that single mothers are more radioactive than Chernobyl in general regardless of age. This piece explains why: https://happybachelo...to-single-moms/

As much as I find certain older/middle aged women suitable for bedroom recreation, having to deal with another man's "saved game" is a sure pain.


This scares me. I need a life partner though. I want a nice woman, not another... My ex was a wonderful woman.
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Just to clarify: I'm not talking about Bunz's relationship in particular, I'm talking in general terms. I was very unlucky with my marriage, now I said to myself that I would never ever talk about it openly here on bsn.. but what the hell.. here goes: I got married at 19, I was in love, I hurried up but it turned out to be an alcoholic, an abusive alcoholic who beat me up and I stayed married for 14 years, he was jeaolus, I couldn't talk to anyone almost, he watched my every move, and yes I stayed for 14 years but people... it's really not that easy to leave a marriage, especially not when he looked perfect in public and made me look as the bad guy, like I was lying. But then my oldest sister died, long story short, I got four brain surgeries from stress and decided life was too short and just left! So you see.. a woman can be single and still good looking and committable and without kids and nice and etc... And I'm not really that single anymore, I am with a guy, I was just talking in general people.

 

Well.. best of luck with your new relationship!



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I'm still shipping TheBunzxOneWomanArmy no matter what.

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Well.. best of luck with your new relationship!

 

Thank you... point is, that age shouldn't matter, cause you never know what that person has been through in the past to get here.


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I only date younger women, they also have to be hawt......and have money....and like video games...and like living in the great white north.....



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So is this confirmation for TheBunzxOneWomanArmy?

Lol damn it Dojima! :lol:

 

And I see Bunz is still keeping up with the based god threads while I've been away.



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If she was in a more down to earth position

 

Papi, this may give you an indication of her wanting to pursue this further: You're not an uptight and cynical MD. Still, I think her being a Dr. may put you in an uncomfortable position for the same reason. If you want to pursue this however, go ahead.

 

And OWA, I've got to give you respekt [sic] for that. You had a stroke?



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So basically what all of you are saying is that a good looking woman above her thirties who is single, is a definite cheater, a no good wash up, only good for banging a few times and could only date a young guy as a trophy!

 

The trophy thing has nothing to do with her age and everything to do with Bunz. I'm assuming that a 37 year old woman who's smart enough to be a successful doctor can identify what Bunz has to offer at a glance and knows what she's getting into by approaching him for a relationship. (Then again maybe I'm being naive and this woman genuinely needs the lesson a relationship with a guy like Bunz is sure to provide her with.)

 

He's not bringing a whole lot to one; Other than his looks and for a successful, driven woman that might be all she requires.

She doesn't need a man to buy her fine things, pay her bills, or help raise her children. She can handle that on her own and only wants a good looking guy who can make her smile and I'm sure Bunz can handle that.

 

I know I laugh at him quite a bit.

 

It is however the definition of a Trophy Wife/Husband.

 

 

YOU OWA should be able to identify people like Bunz with ease. Unless you think incessant bragging, posting sensitive information about the women he's seeing (including pictures!), and revealing his severe lack of relationship etiquette, stuff I could have explained when I was 8 years old, on a forum meant for Video Games are desirable traits...

 

 

*Edit* Congrats on finding someone!


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To be frank, I haven't dated any girl. So I still don't know. :(



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Papi, this may give you an indication of her wanting to pursue this further: You're not an uptight and cynical MD.

 

Still, I think may put you in an uncomfortable position for the same reason. But if you want to pursue this, go ahead.

 

And OWA, I've got to give you respekt for that. You had a stroke?

 

 

Thank you Sigma, it means a lot to me that you say that :) And no, I had too much pressure in my brain, the doctors said that I could have died if it hadn't been caught so I was very lucky but at the major surgery (I got 4 in total) they made a mistake and hit the memory lane, so now I have trouble with my short term memory, I often forget things but I manage ;)


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The trophy thing has nothing to do with her age and everything to do with Bunz. I'm assuming that a 37 year old woman who's smart enough to be a successful doctor can identify what Bunz has to offer at a glance and knows what she's getting into by approaching him for a relationship. (Then again maybe I'm being naive and this woman genuinely needs the lesson a relationship with a guy like Bunz is sure to provide her with.)

 

He's not bringing a whole lot to one; Other than his looks and for a successful, driven, woman that might be all she requires.

She doesn't need a man to buy her fine things, pay her bills, or help raise her children, she can handle that on her own. She wants a good looking guy who can make her smile and I'm sure Bunz can handle that.

 

I know I laugh at him quite a bit.

 

It is however the definition of a Trophy Wife/Husband.

 

 

YOU OWA should be able to identify people like Bunz with ease. Unless you think incessant bragging, posting sensitive information about the women he's seeing (including pictures!), and revealing his severe lack of relationship etiquette, stuff I could have explained when I was 8 years old, on a forum meant for Video Games are desirable traits...

 

 

*Edit* Congrats on finding someone!

 

Thank you :) All I meant to say was that an older woman could date a younger guy without the reason being because she wanted a trophy guy. It could still be real love, that's what I meant. You never know where and when you're gonna meet someone and sometimes that person can be younger or older, age shouldn't matter.


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Pleeeaaaseee.

 

Only Lotion loves you and you know that.

I didn't want to be that guy. I'm glad you said what everyone in the anime/manga thread was probably thinking.

 



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Just to clarify: I'm not talking about Bunz's relationship in particular, I'm talking in general terms. I was very unlucky with my marriage, now I said to myself that I would never ever talk about it openly here on bsn.. but what the hell.. here goes: I got married at 19, I was in love, I hurried up but it turned out to be an alcoholic, an abusive alcoholic who beat me up and I stayed married for 14 years, he was jeaolus, I couldn't talk to anyone almost, he watched my every move, and yes I stayed for 14 years but people... it's really not that easy to leave a marriage, especially not when he looked perfect in public and made me look as the bad guy, like I was lying. But then my oldest sister died, long story short, I got four brain surgeries from stress and decided life was too short and just left! So you see.. a woman can be single and still good looking and committable and without kids and nice and etc... And I'm not really that single anymore, I am with a guy, I was just talking in general people.

 

Should have shot the bastard with an AK.

 

Seriously.

 

That p*ssed me off.

 

What a c*nt.

 


I didn't want to be that guy. I'm glad you said what everyone in the anime/manga thread was probably thinking.

 

It's been LotionxKaizoku for ages, it's just a ship that hasn't be resolved yet.


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It's been LotionxKaizoku for ages, it's just a ship that hasn't be resolved yet.

 

It really has but for some reason it just hasn't taken the next step and come closer to being resolved!