I find Solas' attitude INFURIATING. Yes the Dalish are wrong about so much, so instead of feeling superior, write a book or something about what YOU DO KNOW and set them straight! Yes they'll be resistant and cop an attitude, but who wouldn't when told that everything you thought you knew about your culture was wrong wrong wrong? If I insisted that the woman I mentioned above in my hypothetical to look in a mirror before she is ready, can I blame her if she smashed the mirror and spit on me for being cruel? The cognitive dissonance is enormous so let them rant and lash out a bit. It'd be like a six-year-old who hates going to school. Are you going to be like oh well it's his fault he has a bad attitude towards learning I guess I'll just let him stay illiterate?
He does say that he tried to go to them in order to share knowledge, and the Dalish he encountered called him flat-ear and drove him off. So he kind of writes them off as a lost cause, unless he encounters a Lavellan Inquisitor who makes him reconsider.
Example, this exchange.
I think what bugs me about the representation of Dalish more than their attitudes (from some clans at least) is that Dalish seem to be very... backwards. In lack of a proper word (feel free to help me out here) - what I mean, they're never really shown as innovative, neither in magical areas nor in worldy affairs (except for the Lavellan clan sending the inquisitor to watch the Conclave), they don't seem to have any technical, architectural or other sort of expertise like e.g. the dwarves nor do they seem to have proper training or education as the Qunari have (talking about the system in place here, not the whole following the Qun business). All I feel that I know about the Dalish is that they have hunters and keepers and maximum three mages.
I wish they had some sort of trait like being excellent traders or herbalists or scholars or... I don't know.
They're craftsmen, in particular woodworking, like the ironbark quest you can do in Origins. You can't build up culture or education without stable institutions, however. Until they can get a stable homeland, they're probably going to continue the downwards slide. I hope we do see a New Arlathan emerge.
I never liked the Dalish. I didn't kill any of the clans I met, that being said, I won't shed any tears if they meet their demise at someone else hands. The only elves I feel any sympathy for are the city elves. They at least try to live their lives the best they can and move foward, rather then the dalish who do nothing but keep staring backwards.
I don't get this attitude. I mean, I sympathize with the city elves, but their situation is also pathetic in the worst sense of that word. They accept being forced into ghettoes and becoming the victims of pogroms every time a human ruler needs to solve a poltiical problem of their own. They aren't moving anywhere but down, either. Say what you want about the Dalish, but "we will never submit" is still an admirable trait. I guess you have to prefer freedom over death to accept that.