Jaulen wrote...
I don't think a twice-blighted Alistair WOULD be able to have kids with a fellow grey warden....just too much *hmm let's ignore one of the major the premises of the storyline* (recall, Alistair's mother was an elf Grey Warden, and Alistair was able to sense darkspawn/be sensed by them pretty dang fast compared to other GW recruits) (and DG has mentioned in other threads that two GWs cannot have kids.....so I'm going with what the writer says here)
Your character doesn't know David Gaider, however.

All they know is that Alistair
thinks you can't.
So I still stand by my assertion, that making yourself Queen, is a very selfish act. And, really, if you're playing a PC who has understood WHAT the grey wardens ARE, it's also a very unhonorable thing to do.
Excuse me on behalf of my HNF, but she did not want to become a Grey Warden- she was forced into it and feels no particular loyalty to the order, certainly not to give her entire life to them. Even so, with an order that is completely decimated and discredited, is it not a wee bit of advantage for recruiting and re-establishment to have two GWs on the throne?
Yeah, the romance aspect of it might be nice and all, all butterflies and roses, but harsh reality will set in down the line. (oooh, interesting for potential storyline, after the *golden age* of Alistair and his Queen, with no heir the country is thrown into turmoil)
And no matter, even if you DO have an heir appointed, there will still be a War of Succession, maybe not right away, but SOMEONE will be ticked off that they/their line wasn't picked to be the King's heir and will start to immediately undermine that new line's rule. (Hello English history, heck, Hello Dwarfs!)
The Couslands are second in line to the throne. No one has any greater claim to the throne than the heir of a Theirin and a Cousland. Arguably, your human noble PC has a greater claim to the throne than Alistair does. It is not butterflies and roses to appoint yourself Queen. That is why, I'm sure, the game has it set up so that you do this in the context of the Landsmeet, not in the tent with Alistair ("can I be your queen? wouldn't that be fun?") Naturally you could roleplay it in different ways, but your Cousland character should know what is up with Ferelden politics and should know exactly what she is doing.