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Shocking Betrayal in My Life ever..

Débuté par Cassandra Saturn , déc. 18 2014 06:13

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Cassandra Saturn
Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 06:13

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I feel Betrayed at highest level ever been.. I was deeply shocked and deeply saddened to hear that my own ex-mother was hiding the REAL truth from me..

I never imagined it was so most powerful and very damaging personal betrayal I have ever encountered.. this today, I found out that my ex-mother was siphoning my SSI money from me without telling me about what SSI was or what it’s about at my 18th birthday or even gave me the money. that made me very sick to my stomach.. I FELT completely angry with her of her own actions.

so, I decided to take the matters into my own hands. I’m going to file restraining order against everyone in my former family. also who are once part of my life as well. that will happen once I move to California somehow. I hate this life I’m living in.. I hope it will change for better when I’m here with my boyfriend Daniel.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 06:38

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She has committed fraud. Sue her in civil court if you want. Also file a report, I believe you issue is under- Misuse of benefits by a Representative Payee. 

 

http://oig.ssa.gov/w...fraud-and-waste

 

Sorry this has happened. Your mother in low is a scum bag and you should cease all contact with her. The restraining order is also a good Idea. 

 

Good luck. 


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 06:43

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She has committed fraud. Sue her in civil court if you want. Also file a report, I believe you issue is under- Misuse of benefits by a Representative Payee. 
 
http://oig.ssa.gov/w...fraud-and-waste
 
Sorry this has happened. Your mother in low is a scum bag and you should cease all contact with her. The restraining order is also a good Idea. 
 
Good luck.


she is my mother, I consider her my ex-mother because of everything that happened almost eight years ago up to today etc etc. as for that it won't be my family name after the change it will be just a Saturn.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:19

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I don't really got much advice on the issue but I'm sorry to hear about it. If you don't mind me asking have you confronted her about this? And if so how did she react?

I really hope things improve once you're with your BF and manage to get a fresh start away from that.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:37

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Fam....

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:38

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wow wtf.  sorry to hear this.


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:40

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Someone commited welfare fraud? I'm shocked.


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:53

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Though I don't post my personal life on BSN, I feel your pain because my mother has also betrayed me several times. 


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 07:59

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I don't really got much advice on the issue but I'm sorry to hear about it. If you don't mind me asking have you confronted her about this? And if so how did she react?

I really hope things improve once you're with your BF and manage to get a fresh start away from that.

 when my friend asked me about SSI and I totally had no idea what it was about. I went to ask my mother about it, she lied to me that she doesn't know anything about it. atfer talking to friend and then confronting her about it again, she admitted that she was using my benefits to pay for bills and other things without my knowledge.

she never did't told me about SSI at my 18th birthday. that kind of stuff should have been turned over to me when I hit 18. but she did't and kept it secret. I don't know the reason for it.
 

Someone commited welfare fraud? I'm shocked.

my mother commited this act, that really does hurt just because I'm her blood and lineage. I don't even know why she would do this for some reason.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:00

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I remember when my mom betrayed me. She told me that she was going to bring home Popeyes, and she brought home KFC.

 

That cut me deeper than 1,000 knives ever could.


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:00

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Though I don't post my personal life on BSN, I feel your pain because my mother has also betrayed me several times.


yeah she has done plenty to me since 2008.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:23

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If someone did this to me, I'd have most likely cut ties and tried as hard as i can to get my money back. But that's just me.


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:27

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I've sent you a PM Cass. 


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:27

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BSN is getting too real for me doe.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:33

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We ALL have had drama with our ex-moms... 

 

:huh:


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:50

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We ALL have had drama with our ex-moms... 
 
:huh:


not at the level of mine are. so it's really screwed up life in whole different level.

she has hurt me in many ways and I can tell you.. it's enough to get her arrested for the crimes she commited against me.

I've been stabbed, poisoned, run over and slashed at, burned at and getting murder attempts on my life.. anything you name it, I got it from her.

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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 08:54

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the BSN sure is the best place for a topic like this :huh:


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 09:09

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the BSN sure is the best place for a topic like this :huh:

Last time I've said something in that nature I gained a lot of hate for it. 

Of course I didn't care and the way I said it rather... rudely, for other people's standards. 

 

It's also is the start of a thread derail. Done it and seen it. 

 

Some people need to vent, in which I have before and some want the same amount of attention Amanda Todd had. In this case I believe it is the former because I have vented before on such matters and understand them. She isn't doing anything harmful or asking for anything foolish. 

 

But of course, you may not see it my way, nor do you have to. But I have spoken my mind, and which you may understand or cry wolf and hit the report button. I certainly won't stop you. 

 

And I have shared my experience with Cass through PM. Of course it's for her eyes only. 


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 09:10

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not at the level of mine are. so it's really screwed up life in whole different level.

she has hurt me in many ways and I can tell you.. it's enough to get her arrested for the crimes she commited against me.

I've been stabbed, poisoned, run over and slashed at, burned at and getting murder attempts on my life.. anything you name it, I got it from her.

Very brutal of her, even by my standards. 

 

Which sane mother in this universe would do such a thing? 


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 11:31

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BSN is getting too real for me doe.

You not out here in the streets with the gratata anymore?


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 11:37

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My grandmother used to tell my mum at the age of seven that she was dying and not to leave the house etc... she used to threaten my mum that she'd kill any cat she brought into the house (and my mum is a huge cat lover.)

 

Well... just to put it this way... my grandmother was a total f*cking selfish b*tch who wanted nothing but everybody's pity.

 

THEN my grandfather abandoned my mum with that lunatic and had two daughters with another woman and completely forgot about her xD

 

It's amazing she turned out the way she did, seriously. Me and my mum are like BFFS. My biggest problem with her is that she DOESN'T LET ME PLAY PERSONA WITHOUT HER GAWWWD! xD

 

Anyway, Cass, that really f*cking sucks.

 

I just said that story to give you the heads up that you don't need anybody but yourself.

 

You'll have it tough though. I can't say much, I'm the most privileged middle-class whiteboy assh*le in Europe, but at least I know that fact. So yeah, good on you taking a stand.


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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 11:44

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You not out here in the streets with the gratata anymore?


Run up on mums and ask tell her I'm in me mums car
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Posté 18 décembre 2014 - 11:52

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@Cass

Sounds like the final straw sort of thing. Well I'm glad you're able to get away from that toxic relationship.. It's too bad you had to go through so much to get to this point X3

@Sim

Mm your mom sounds pretty cool tbh. I wouldn't say me and my mom are bff's but I can hang out and spend time with her and still have fun. We've had some really go in depth talks over GoT and some other things.

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Posté 19 décembre 2014 - 12:28

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Mm your mom sounds pretty cool tbh. I wouldn't say me and my mom are bff's but I can hang out and spend time with her and still have fun. We've had some really go in depth talks over GoT and some other things.

 

The only in depth talk I've had with her is our argument  between "The North Remembers" or "The Northerners will never forget" and which one sounds cooler.

 

So yeah.

 

I got really lucky there.


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Posté 19 décembre 2014 - 12:35

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It's a shame to hear that Cass.

The last person you should feel betrayed by is your mother.
I don't think I can say anything to make you feel better. But your always among friends here.
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