I totally see the valid points of view here (everyone's right, we've all got opinions/points of view). I am also concerned with the trend of releasing buggy games. It seems to be happening too much these days. Let's just say there are very very few games I would consider ordeirng, and only would because fanbiy (ie ME:Next).
Despite some of the bugs on Xbox1, it is quite playable compared to PC. I really feel for PC players, I used to be one, but I truly enjoy the comfort of my couch while playing. Believe it or not, actually played 6-7 sessions last night without it bugging out. I know!!
Going back to ME3 MP, it was a small initial release, and it had it's bugs too. However BW did step up, add so much more, and overall ME3 MP was an enjoyable experience for me to play. They also engaged the community in the forums, and kept us updated either through the forum or blog, or both. What is weird is how little BW has been communicating with us about DAMP. Kinda scratching my head about their silent ways in dealing with DAMP.
All that said, I am standing by BW, and will continue to be patient and allow them to do their thing. It would simply go further for all of us with community engagement in ways of announcements, showing us they care enough to keep us in the loop in terms of their focus and progress.