Re: how is it orientation changing.
First, I would like to say I know how this might come off. But please don't paint me with the wide stroke of, "unless they identify as otherwise they must be straight!" camp. I am not. Like stated before, I am bi and very well know what being bi means. Secondly, I also stand firmly that Anders was not a retcon. His writer clearly stated that he had always been bi. Sometimes you feel more comfortable flirting with one sex, sometimes you have a preference, etc. etc. Maybe that was the case with Anders in A. (even though I still think he was totally flirting with Nate. : p)
But with Cullen I do not believe that was the case. In Origins, it's not flirting. He has a massive crush on you no matter what you say to him or look like as long as you are a female. Copy paste that same character but now as a male and he does not have that attraction to you. It's the same character, but it's gender that he makes this attraction towards. Anyways, I definitely do not feel he was bi in Origins. You can create a lot of workarounds as to why he was only attracted to the female mage, but they're just that: workarounds. I strongly believe he was created as a straight male originally.
Back on to my new point. Yes, bi people can have a preference and can realize they're bi later in life. But if you add this to his character solely so he can become a romance, you're changing the character just to be romanced. I thought this was something Bioware would never do, which is why it just devastates me.
And this is all coming from the guy that would have loved to romance a Cullen-type with a male Inquisitor.
Anyways, I do know how this comes off. Obviously I think that "straight is default unless they state otherwise" and such. I don't.
I am just disappointed. Like, I can't even explain why this disappoints me so much it just does. I just thought that it was something Bioware wouldn't do. I really need to take a step away and figure out why a video game character and it's company disappoints me so much. It's making me really devastated and IDK even know why, send help.
And it's frustrating because I really would like to see a "KISA" (is that how you acronym it? x3) and would love to romance one with a male, finally. (And another female KISA for the ladies.) But I don't think Cullen was the way to go.
I definitely don't think patching it in would be good. They've established him as straight by this point in DAI, so it would feel sketchy. And it would feel like making him bi wasn't intended, and was just an afterthought. Which is also sketchy. Which frustrates me too. GAH. I am just frustrated at a lot.
And sorry for the long complaint. I just am not okay with this whole situation. (Both that I felt that they changed him and the fact that it was so close to having a Knight m/m.) I hope you guys don't roll your eyes at me, I think you are all really snazzy. I just find this uncomfortable for certain reasons. : c
(Re-reading, I do come off as whiny and annoying. Oh well, no where else to express my thoughts.)