In that instance.
But just because a practice exists doesn't make it common occurrence nor does it make it the norm.
What I find amusing though?
Even circle magi know of it.
It makes me wonder just how common and wide spread the alternative is when humans know of it off the top of their head.
I'm reposting something I wrote in another thread regarding Vivienne's words:
"That has an easy answer: because of the Dalish isolationism, it's easier for her to know about individuals who left the Dalish. In this case, individuals abandoned by their clans. That's not a very representative example, isn't it? It's a classic example of the Biased Sample Fallacy:
Pastor Pete: People are turning to God everywhere! 9 out of 10 people I interviewed said that they had a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
Fred: Where did you find these people you interviewed?
Pastor Pete: In my church.
Of course, it doesn't mean that the people pastor Pete interviewed didn't have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ or that the mages Vivienne know of weren't abandoned by their clans. But making a hasty generalization from a biased sample is a common logical fallacy.
For now. As always, new data in the future might require new hypothesis."
I mean, just at the beginning of the game we have an example of that: unless you're a Dalish Inquisitor, the protagonist's first likely contact with a Dalish mage is a Circle apprentice who was abandoned by her clan. Then the Bull's Chargers Dalish, similar case although with less implied "doom to die" perspectives. What a pool of examples! Yet you may go with that story to the Warden or Hawke (who have first hand experience with Dalish) and find them surprised because it's the first time they hear about it.
In Thedas? Not so sure- there's a long history of people kicking down on others, with varying degrees of success, but few role models without so much kicking at all.
Mm, true. Well, I still find Ferelden preferable to Tevinter, Orlais or Arlathan, so that's something. And you can always try to find something new. Like what happens in Wycome.