I have to agree with the OP
I am a massive Dragon Age (and BioWare) fan but so far I've only completed one playthrough of DAI and don't plan on a second anytime soon. I missed the tightly woven narrative with compelling characters and "OMG!" moments. Oh yes, the game is VERY pretty! Prettier than Skyrim, but that's only fair since Skyrim is now two years old (or is it three years??). And yes, of course, DAI's characters blow Skyrim's out of the water. The DA writing team are champs 
It's just a shame that the emphasis on beautiful scenery and codex entries got in the way of telling a gripping story and forging bonds between us and our new virtual friends
I felt such a lack of closeness with the DAI companions and advisors; my relationship with them does not even compare with the folks from the previous two titles.
Personally I think the War Table was an interesting idea that didn't quite work. The only thing fun about it were the cut scenes. Perhaps the War Table could've been restricted to 1. Opening up main quests, 2. Opening up areas on the map 3. Companion-related quests (i.e. Cole's amulet). I think the writers (?) let the idea get away with them when they had me picking a card, any card (Leliana, Cullen, or Josie) to deal with star-crossed lovers or which noble sibling should rule a small holding.
As for the areas themselves, again, they are gorgeous. They are delight to tromp through! Unfortunately, you NEED to tromp through them, and for several hours each, just to level up and gain power to advance in the main quest. The main story line too loosely strung together when I was spending 5 hours closing rifts and finding lost rings in between each main quest. Heck I think I'd rather scan planets than have to go through that again
True, lots of people enjoyed it, and I'm glad for them! Maybe it shouldn't have been so tied to leveling up and gaining power though. Or perhaps a story mode should've been provided; I don't know.
Again, it is a great game and a beautiful game, but it just feels a little lost and lacking in those elements I've come to love most in a DA game (characters and story).