LobselVith8: The developers literally own the Dalish - they're not some real world minority group.
If the developers say: "Yes, the Dalish are as myopic and bitter as we're portraying them." It doesn't matter - at all - what you think. The very same for the opposite.
I hate the Dalish because I find them to be insulting to my studies on animistic tribal traditions - they are, to me, what a modern hipster "thinks" nature loving people's should be like. The noble savage gone ludicrous.
That is not relevant - if the developers want to have Solas bring about the next golden age of elves - I've got two choices, roll my eyes and continue playing DA games or move on.
Chances are - I'll do the former so long as I'm not forced to play a Dalish (City Elf would be palletable) saving the elven people from... "whatever". If they want to tell the "Dalish rebel and make homeland story." My only hope is that they inform the consumer so I can opt out.
But unlike the mustache twirling villains you seem to make "Dalish haters" out to be - I actually couldn't care at all about what happens to them or how they are portrayed.
My response to you is simply the fact that you seem to believe you have ownership of "The People" and that you, not the developers, are the authority on who they are and how they are portrayed and anything that doesn't fit into your view is reconning, or favoritism or whatever.
Also - trying to discredit someone by suggesting you don't take them seriously holds no value to me - I don't know the real you, and I could care less about the opinion of someone named LobselVith8. There's really no need to couch conversations you don't like with passive aggressive behavior.