Ok, i don't know about this. What does she say about the sushi place and when does she say it? I really need to play this with my Tali LI character. To be honest I don't know why I haven't, she is among my top five characters in the entire series.
Actually, I'm pretty sure she says it regardless of you being LI. I believe it is when everyone is in the the apartment after you escape those goons but not so far as to have the party. If I remember correctly she is standing by the giant window in the apartment looking out at the strip and if you approach her and interact she'll tell you a story about the sushi place. Again, its been a while and I'm running off memory here so I may not be 100% accurate.
She says when she visited the citadel on her pilgrimage she always wanted to go there but they wouldn't let quarians in. She promised herself though that some day she would have sushi there. Then Shepard crashed through it. That's about the jist of it. Though, like I said earlier, I'm not sure we're supposed to take her seriously. She tells the story in a rather amusing way and it seems to me that shes just making it up to tease Shepard. It has to be a lie, since the story she tells goes against the lore we know from the comics. I'm willing to assume its just teasing and overlook it but as you can probably tell I'm a bit of a stickler for lore. Lol.
I'm going to go with the old "she's drinking because she's young, drinking because she's afraid, drinking because her fondest hope of having a home world for her people has finally been realised at the very same time every home world of every race is about to be taken away unless the team she's on can pull a rabbit out of the hat" excuse. Seriously though, these guys are under unimaginable pressure and it's scene's like Ashley's drinking, Tali's induction port and some moments in the Citadel dlc which really hammer this point home like nowhere else in the series. That's just my take on it though.
That is a possible answer to the drunk stupor, sure. I'm just not satisfied with it. When she first got drunk on the Normandy the context was clear. We were given rational cause. In the Citadel DLC the only reason we're ever given for it is "for the luls". No other character got completely wasted (no drinking party) I mind you. Also interesting that Anderson just happened to have turian brandy... did Tali bring it herself or does Anderson really just keep alien drinks lying around? To be fair, I could a bit off on that - maybe others did get drunk regardless and I just don't remember. Tali definitely stands out though.
Also look at some of the "drunk on the bathroom floor lul" lines she gives us:
"Don't do that in my helmet. It just gunks up the filters.",
"Garrus? But you're with Shepard! Oh, the three of us? Well, hmm..." (if Garrus is in a relationship with Shepard)
A particular line from the wiki sums it up well:
"If Shepard and Tali are just friends, Tali can be found arms on her knees in one of the bedrooms upstairs in the morning after, nursing a hangover, regardless of the setting and barely remembering anything from the previous night."
If people want to through a party and get drunk, thats fine. I love it when the game gives us choices. I'm less bothered by Tali being drunk than I am the fact that she is ALWAYS drunk. No matter what you do she gets completely smashed on the bathroom floor. Her behavior is independent of the type of party you through.
Don't get me wrong, even if it was just an option I wouldn't be happy with it. But at least I could say Shepard pressured her into drinking with everyone else and just go with it. Besides, its not like Im forced to choose that path. As it stands though she gets drunk no matter what you do and gives you no choice in the matter. Again, for the sole purpose of "for the luls".
Yeah, I can see this as being potentially very, very wrong indeed. It's just one step away from having Javik slyly dropping a rohypnol pill into her drink, or acting as bar tender all night just to get her drunk. Very disturbing, but probably simply a coincidence, like you point out Javik may not even be there at all. Still, the subtle implication caused by this sequence of events should have been picked up on, or the handling of Tali's drunken behaviour looked at through more sensible eyes.
I can forgive her out of character behaviour though. As a non-drinker, I have found myself to be the designated driver on a few occasions which allows me to understand why she acts as she does. People aren't themselves while drunk. In the past on the rare occasions when I have drank to excess, people have told me how I become maudlin and aggressive - traits not normally associated with me.
Yeah I'm not saying Javik really did anything. Its just the situation is unsettling. Theres just so much 'wrong' with that scene.
I understand her behavior changing if she is drunk, its not really that I have a problem with. It's that she gets drunk in the first place. THAT is what is out of character. What we do when we're drunk I understand is not necessarily meant to be 'in-character'. It is the fact that no matter what she gets completely hammered drunk and passes out on the bathroom floor that really bothers me.
When I point out the things she says/does while drunk I don't really mean it necessarily as a "this is ooc" way, because she is drunk and that gives some leeway, but rather as elaboration on why the only reason she is FORCED to be drunk is seemingly so that she can act this way. They make her drunk for the luls and that's it. They're not even subtle about it. No "eeeemergency induction port" but rather "don't do that in my helmet, ooo a threesome hmm".
I just find the whole thing to be disrespectful to one of my favorite characters in the series and wish they had handled it better instead of parading her around like some drunk bimbo whos getting tattoos, eating alien food, getting complete wasted and talking about gunking up her helmet and having interspecies threesomes. She deserved better than that. Though I wear my bias on my sleeves, I romance Tali so I'm probably more sensitive to their disturbing portrayal of her than others who may not care one way or another. Though, imo, the Citadel DLC is meant to give more happy content with your LI. I don't feel like I got that. It just made me feel uncomfortable and left me questioning the integrity of the character. Which all stems back to them FORCING her to be drunk.
Again, would be fine if it was just an option like it is for everyone else. But no, she HAS to be drunk for luls.
This is very interesting, my feelings are mixed. I watched the video you linked to, took your point of view into consideration.
My initial thoughts about it were how very young she comes across as. There's an innocence to her as she talks about how much she loved the film and her sleepovers with friends. Now I don't know how old she is but I think she's only two and a half years after completing her pilgrimage, which puts her at about 19 or 20 maximum, no? Shepard being in his thirties by this time and the age difference has never been more apparent than in this scene.
Shepard is 32 (if you count the two years dead) and Tali is 25. I shouldn't know this so readily, should I?
Onto Fleet and Flotilla and the words and their parallels with a Shep/Tali romance had me thinking as you do. Was she so influenced by this movie that it stayed with her prompting a desperate, childish desire to live it? Or did falling in love with Shepard simply prompt reminders in her brain, making the dialogue appear natural but really subliminally implanted when she was a more impressionable age?
All this leads me down two trains of thought: one is that the real Tali is the immature girl we see during the Citadel dlc and that like Bruce Wayne, she puts on a mask to appear more mature and responsible, but is instead living out a fantasy and will get bored of Shepard like any first crush.
The other is that the real Tali is the one we know and love; mature beyond her years, youngest admiral ever and a hero for her entire race, simply using this one unique opportunity to let her hair down as never before - possibly the last opportunity she'll ever have - sharing her innocent youthful memories with Shepard as a way of letting him in as never before, proving her deep love for him by revealing these memories which would normally be private.
Clearly I'm preferring the second option - I mean I still romance her regardless so its not like Citadel DLC made me give up on that. She's still my favorite romance. I just would had rather this not even be a thing to speculate about. It was easily avoidable. She could even still sing and watch a movie and reveal all this private stuff. Just edit it a bit so it doesn't have so many parallels. One too many for my book, though again I'm bias here. I try my best to stay objective on things and for the most part I think I do a good job but the issue with Tali is that I can't be sure when I am being objective and when I'm letting my personal feelings influence my thoughts. It's a slippery slope.
For example, what you bring up in that (the second option) is not something I really thought of. I was too focused on how much I dislike the whole thing and how uncomfortable it made me feel that it I didn't really see there were other ways to view it. Still, even now with that option presented to me I still don't feel any better about the way they handled her in the DLC. I'm just now not sure how much of it is personal and how much of it is objective. At least I'm able to concede the possibility that I'm too persuaded by personal feelings, even if I don't actually change my opinion on it.