But it isn't as unless a male is specifically stated in game or by the creator to represent men people genuinely don't consider them to represent all men, the same cannot be said for how a great many people feel about a female character. The fact that so many sites highlight a female character as female representation means that there is pressure to show them in a certain way.
I also don't want to drag female LI into this as that would make it seem like I am bashing female LI, the "they got what they want, why didn't we get what we want?" I don't want that. The male character that is a bromance can just as easily be someone else's romance and vice versa for female players.
But again, you are looking at the female character design separate from the male character design. While female players might look for representation from the female characters in a more overt way than male players do (due primarily to a lack of realistic representation historically in the medium), it doesn't change the fact that the redesign on the characters affected both genders. Unless you are making the argument that the redesign was driven by the requests for realistic representation from female players and the designers decided to redesign all of the characters based on this. If that's the case, and it might be, is that a bad thing?
It seems to me that Bioware, as a company, still puts out 'sexy' female characters on a regular basis. Look at ME 3 and SWTOR. Unrealistically dressed sexy ladies are all over those games. If the DA team, just one of the teams, decides to go in a different direction, I don't see why that's necessarily a bad thing.