The real problem, knowing many radical feminists would be: Being feminine x not being feminine
For most women, being feminine is desireable, society provides them with all the "support" (more like slavery) to be feminine, and they love it, to be cute, girlish, sexy, and so on
For some women, being feminine fits some areas, but not all, and they would not like to be feminine as a warrior, perhaps they would think it is ridiculous
For very few women (usually feminist, with whom I do agree) being feminine is offensive, it is oppression, brainwashing that girls suffer from birth to death through millenia and have a huge social power pressing them to be feminine
Feminism and my opinion aside, seeing how this is a game so it should be great for as many players as possible what I think is... it should be optional. Gender indentity is very important for people, both, cis and trans, and the denial of this identity in clothing and gestures can be frustrating. However resorting to stereotypes can also be frustrating since many women are feminine but not the avatar of feminity and wouldn't be happy if they were, while others would like to be a cinderella...
Bioware can't possibly put as many option as it would be needed to please everyone, so they make choices, sometimes poor ones. Well, I guess tht clothes-wise they could do better but it is very probable that given the limited resources they had to choose between sexism and plain bad taste. As much as I hate the game, considering how bad sexism would be I rather like the way they went...
I love high heels and marvelous dresses (I am so jealous of orlesians, Vivienne and Morrigan [at winter palace]) but I love women not being portrayed as eyecandy even more. We already have (anorexic) supermodel PC character bodies so clothes perhaps help in balancing how they portrayed women? In a perfect world we would have thousands of option in all areas including gender but in the real world of limited resources I choose to believe they couldn't let us choose between feminine beautiful clothing and "male" boring clothing... so it follows we also couldn't choose anything in between.