Really?
Yes, really.
I had drinks last night with Bull and his crew for the first time and the first thing they do is tease Krem about his name.After the initial sit down you're locked in the convo,
... which takes place only after you've had a number of conversations with Bull and got his approval high enough. In other words, it takes about as much time as it does for you to gain the confidence of any other NPC.
Furthermore, if you don't go for drinks but instead just keep talking to Krem, he never brings the subject up. He is quite happy to remain in his corner of the tavern and let you continue thinking he's just a dude with a high voice.
then the option pops up to ask him why he lives as a man...
So don't click on that option.
You know, maybe I should turn that into a gif.
If something is Too Much Information for your inquisitor's sensitive brain, then you should not ask for Too Much Information.
WTF...I thought he was a man.
The game is giving you the opportunity to learn that your initial assumptions were not entirely correct. Whether you wish to take advantage of that opportunity is up to you.
It felt forced and out of place. I mean seriously I thought he was a dude with a high voice. What was even the point?
What is the point of any activity when we're pretending to be elves?