You clearly have no idea what it's like to lack representation then. If you did, then you'd realize that people will in fact seek out genres of games/movies/books, etc if they offer representation that is lacking elsewhere. There are plenty of people who play Bioware games because it allows them to play as a woman, gay man, lesbian, etc. and these are people who aren't interested in RPGs in general. In fact, I can't count the number of people who say that Bioware games were what specifically drew them into the genre in the first place because of that representation.
I'll give you another example: I hate FPSs. Can't stand them. But then I heard that Axton in Borderlands 2 is a bisexual guy. So I looked into it and saw this article: http://gearboxsoftwa...-inclusivity. Based on this, I decided to pick up the game as a digital download. I still hated it. In fact, I only played about three or four hours and never went back to it. But I was happy to try something new and give my money to a developer who is interested in inclusivity. On the other hand, I chose not to buy Bound by Flame because they offer 4 romances and all of them are straight. I also chose not to buy Alpha Protocol and The Witcher 2 (I rented them through gamefly instead) because those games also only offers straight romances. Had those games offered LGBT romances, I would certainly have bought them.
You seem to be stuck in circular logic:
1.) Straight guys are the primary audience for video games;
2.) Video games are marketed to the primary audience;
3.) Straight men buy things that are marketed to them;
4.) Therefore, straight men are the primary audience for video games
The reality is that companies that are making an effort to be inclusive in their content are not suffering because of this decision. Most people don't care if the content is opened up to include stories for women and/or LGBT folks. The few that do care are not missed because those companies pick up additional customers by expanding their outreach.
Do I have a personal stake in seeing more LGBT content? Of course I do, but if you are familiar with my posting record, you'll see that I'm just as quick to support other areas of inclusivity (such as increased representation for females, even though I'm a guy, and increased representation for racial minorities, even though I'm white). And I'm far from the only one. There are dozens and dozens of straight men and women who post regularly about how much they support LGBT inclusive content, even though it doesn't represent them. To try to paint anyone who supports this content as being selfish and dishonest is incorrect and, frankly, ridiculous.
Sure I do, I just realize I'm lucky and get it in some of things I like. You contradict your own point in the second paragraph by saying you didn't enjoy a game despite it having a gay character, perhaps it would make more sense that these people just happened to enjoy DA as well.
This is just an example of purchasing decisions and what motivated them, I fail to see how any of this goes against what I have said
No circular logic, you just made some things up.
1.Straight males are the primary audience -correct
2.Vdeo games are marketed towards the primary audience- correct but just in the same way that FPS are the biggest market does not mean that there is not an audience for games marketed at women.
3.Everyone buys things marketed at them, you just admitted you buy games with gay protags
4. Well, yes, they are, if you are a straight male gamer you just happen to get more because you exist in larger numbers, call it unfair if you will but that's just silly.
The actual reality is that only some things can be inclusive, Dragon Age can cater to more than say Final Fantasy because a precedence does not need to be made on the protags sexuality. Your point of inclusiveness makes little sense when what's more likely to happen is that you may get games similar to those in Japan that have a gay protag that caters towards women and gay men or a protag that is in a straight romance, not every game will have a non-static protag. The fact of the matter is that a game like DA can exist if it appeals to just male gamers, it can exist if it appeals to male, female and gay gamers, but currently there's little chance that it can exist without appealing to straight male gamers.
You say you post for adding more females and non-whites, that's just lip service. in your second paragraph you mention how your purchasing decision was based on gay content rather than any of these factors. That's the only factor that matters, purchasing, it's not a social justice issue, it's a marketing issue and you pretty much admitted you realize that yourself. You can go out and buy games you don't like with non-white female protags if you really want but that still doesn't make this a social justice issue, it's still just a marketing issue.