I do think this game has the weirdest and least appealing romance options yet. I do say this as a straight male, but I've played female characters and gay characters in Bioware games before. The only character I really find attractive enough, physically and personality-wise, is Sera. I'm romancing Cassandra (or trying to) as my current Inquisitor is straight.
Everybody else? Bleeeeh. Iron Bull, um, gross. Also, Freddie Prinze Jr. Dorian's a bit too smarmy for a relationship, although I like the character. Josephine seems like a total non-entity to me. Solas... mmmmaybe, but if I roll a female elf I'll probably go after Sera. Am I forgetting someone? Oh, Cullen. Well again, if I do get around to making a female I would definitely favor Sera, most likely.
Anyway. I think the next game should have a skinny blonde with enormous breasts who's very virginal but becomes wanton in the presence of the main character. Just to play against playing against stereotypes, you know?