Likewhat? Looks fine to me. I've just never seen anyone say otherwise. I mean he has a hole in his face, but besides that.
You might not, but I've seen a lot of women here speak otherwise, with some men here asking for the facial hair itself. Not me, hate facial hair, but I figure if a lot of dudes want it, it must look good to somebody.
Solas, meh. I've never seen anyone speak negatively on his appearance. As for Dorian, that's fair I guess. I wasn't speaking on that though, so I was just clarifying.
Blackwall sitting in a corner and crying isn't manly.
"Pillowy man-bosoms." Iron Bull is also: grey-skinned; scarred; has an unusually pointy chin; has a large nose and small eyes. I like the dude and all, but he is not getting cast as the dreamboat in a rom-com anytime soon.
Solas, well, elves are (deliberately) kind of alien-looking, and Solas is especially so. His fandom nickname is 'Egg' because of his ovoid and hairless noggin. Being small, slight, and bald are all features I have so often heard men lament as making them unattractive to shallow women who only go for big buff hairy jerks. (And there is a stigma against baldness - in white people at least - because it is seen as a feature of age, and because hair is felt to be a signifier of virility and health for both men and women.)
Blackwall was probably my least favorite companion overall so that will color my opinion of him, but I found his face to be sort of sallow and gaunt-looking and his overall appearance (and all the comments about his hygiene) made him feel unkempt, to me.
If all three of them can be considered conventionally attractive, then all three of the female LIs can absolutely be considered conventionally attractive as well. They all have symmetrical features, they are all physically fit, they all have thick, shiny hair (if some unfortunate haircuts, in Sera's case), they all have clear skin, they all have good bone structure, they all have all their teeth. What hideous disfigurements disqualify them from conventional attractiveness, that can't equally be applied to the male LIs? (Except Dorian of course, who is just as beautiful as he thinks he is, bless him)