Go to any number of discussions about street harassment and catcalling (e.g. Hollaback), or even the old #yesallwomen hashtag on twitter and you will find a plethora of women explaining how they don't enjoy being treated like a side of beef in a meat market by strangers. Do some people feel flattered, at least some of the time? Yes, partly due to personality and partly due to the fact that women are socialised to want to be pretty and to be perceived as such, because it gives us cultural value. None of us is immune to societal and cultural pressures to conform, even if some conform more than others. But it definitely carries, or often can carry, an element of feeling dehumanised and feeling unsafe too.
I'll never get why people do that. What do they expect is going to happen if they cat call?
"Yuss! This random guy called my sexy, I will now have crazy animal sex with him in the nearest alley!"
Does it ever work?





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