This is not about rose tinted glasses it is about the truth that it is becoming worse each game. And it is obvious.
BG/IWD > NWN > DAO > DA2 > DAI
This is not true and I know that because my list would look different to yours. Are you just counting the CRPGs?
If so mine would go DA:O=DA2>BG2 - with BG and NWN missing from the list because I just couldn't get into them. I haven't decided where DA:I will go, I've multiple playthroughs of the others so it's not fair to place it until I've done multiple playthroughs of it too.
I will say that DA2 improved with each playthrough I did, were as I liked DA:O less during my last playthrough of it.
Thing is that remebering how people complained about DAO doesn't make the complaints about DAI less true, in fact it proves them to be true. As I said, you can clearly see the changes towards action and leaving RPG elements in each "new generation". So people complained and will complain because it is in fact getting worse. It is not because whatever Bioware do people complain but because they maimed great elements at each "new generation".
I don't think it makes them less true for them, I just think it is funny how DA:O was criticised heavily for not being BG by the same type of people who are criticizing DA:I for not being DA:O.
Ironically you could argue that DA:I has more in common with BG2 then it does DA:O.
We don't have rose tinted glasses, we have Divinity Original Sin, Wasteland 2 and Shadowrun showing that we know exactly what we want. And when Pillar of Eternity arrive all this nostalgia nonsense and "people just want to complain" no sense will end because we will have what we want and show that we know what we want perfectly and that is not and never was about liking to complain but rather rightfully complaining for having our beloved franchises maimed.
the way you have phrased this paragraph makes it sound like if you liked DA:I, then you couldn't possibly like (or are possible not allowed to like) the other games you've mention.
I haven't played Divinity, but I do own it and it's on my list. I have played Wasteland 2 and I really enjoyed it. I'm also looking forward to Pillar of Eternity.
Each game in the DA series has been different, BioWare haven't maimed it because BioWare never established a pattern of gameplay over more than one game.
All three games play differently, they are similarities between each of course, but all three play differently.
What links the games together is the world, the characters and the merciless slaughter of Dragons.
Edit: typo correction.