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[TheBunz]

I need more of this and was wondering what things I could do in order to increase my levels.

Thanks in advance

[AutumnWitch]

Admitting you have a problem is the first step to getting better. Good on you!

[mousestalker]

Do things.
 
Preferably do good deeds for other people.
 
Inspirational song:

[Voxr]

Spoiler

Oh my god yes! What better way to enjoy this evening than to sit back and relax with a Bunz thread? Especially when asking for advice on self confidence.. On BSN....On the internet... :'D I can't wait.

 

On a serious note. Try to focus on your good qualities and adapt a more positive mindset. Focus on the things your good at and don't compare yourself to others because what they do and you do doesn't matter. 

 

Don't get so hung up on your insecurities because everyone has them and they really aren't as bad as you might think they are.

 

That's all I got. I wanna thank my 11th grade HS counselor's pamphlet on self-esteem for helping me.

[Nattfare]

If those muscles haven't gotten your self confidence up enough yet you clearly need more of them. Simples.

[mybudgee]

Start thinking twice before posting/speaking

 

Less foolish regret = instant confidence boost!!

 

[DEUGH Man]

Just do what you want to do. At the end of the day, no one cares as much as you think they do. Even if they do, so what? You're your own guy, and you have to do what makes you happy.

 

Plus, having a large penis helps a lot.

[TheBunz]

Just do what you want to do. At the end of the day, no one cares as much as you think they do. Even if they do, so what? You're your own guy, and you have to do what makes you happy.

 

Plus, having a large penis helps a lot.

 

epeen or irlpeen?

[DEUGH Man]

epeen or irlpeen?

 

Whichever one is already large, or failing that, you can realistically grow.

[Inquisitor Recon]

You don't.

[saMoorai]

Just remember that you're not Recon. That does wonders for my self-esteem.

[Sigma Tauri]

Keep active, find something you are good at or enjoy and then create.

 

I thought creating silly relationship threads is what he's good at?

[Sigma Tauri]

Hahaha he might have to find a different squeeze

 

Cuz the one he's squeezin is kinda blue and needs a break?

[Vroom Vroom]

First, get some eye-liner and draw big black circles around both of your eyes. 

 

Secondly, get some lipstick and smear it all of your face, missing both the circles around your eyes and your lips.

 

Walk around town with your shirt off and shout "I'm Batman" at everyone you see.

 

At first this will be humiliating, but it will build your confidence over time.  

 

I hear that a lot of business men do this before they have to give big presentations, because it gives them the confidence that they need.

 

God Speed, Bunz! 

[Inquisitor Recon]

Just remember that you're not Recon. That does wonders for my self-esteem.

It shouldn't because you're still awful.

[Jock Cranley]

1.) Fake it.  Perception is reality; all but the most perceptive will believe you have confidence when you are faking it. Eventually it will come to you if you fiercely maintain the charade.

 

2.) Reduce your self-accountability. Nothing is your fault, even if it is. Aside: I call this immaturity, but the loosey goosey party girls you're probably after will probably view it as strength. Well, unless you are screwing them over, but by then it will be too late. 

 

3.) Have no fear. It is better to be impetuous than cautious. Do not let things visually intimidate you. Again, even if something does concern you, act as if it does not. 

 

4.) Don't be afraid to start "low." You have to start from somewhere, and almost nobody is a success out the gate. 

 

5.) Do not display any self-pity or victim complex. Again, all this does is make you look weak, and a weak man is not a confident one.

 

6.) Let your loyalty be bought with a price. Your efforts and affections must not be free or a given at any time, else others will take them for granted. Few things are as disheartening as being taken for granted. 

 

7.) Treat your enemies with pretension rather than animosity. Hatred is often an admission of weakness or vulnerability. 

 

 

I could list many others, but that is all that comes to mind at the moment.

[Sigma Tauri]

Bunz, remember these words: When life gives you lemons, tuck em!

 

He is trying to make lemonade with a rind

 

True dat.

[mousestalker]

I will give a serious answer.

To gain self confidence, you have to (Deleted: Inappropriate material) things. While, at first you may (Removed: Offensive imagery) upon, your failure, the (Edited: Violation of forum rules) ventures. Eventually you will be (Removed: Offensive language) not only to (Deleted: Personal attacks) have boundless (Removed: Vulgar and crude language), you will be a success.

Modifié par mousestalker, 13 janvier 2015 - 12:41 .

[saMoorai]

It shouldn't because you're still awful.

Lies.