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[TheBunz]

Don't lie Buns.you're looking for this...

Sure you're not looking for this

[Gravisanimi]

It's not about finding a woman that's looks are a 10/10, it's about finding a woman that you find 10/10 when you are with her.

[TheBunz]

She's too freckly.

This was option 2


But if I'm going to go ltr then I need full experience. I hate freckles but they somehow work on her.

[Jock Cranley]

This was option 2
*snip*

But if I'm going to go ltr then I need full experience. I hate freckles but they somehow work on her.

 

It's the green eyes

[The Valiant Misanthropist]

[Sigma Tauri]

Self confidence is directly linked to one's ability to mate with suitable females.

 

But, you don't seem tall.

[SnipedArm]

Post more shirtless selfies. That should work. 

[mybudgee]

God I love freckled women...

[Dermain]

May I suggest thinking about buying a shirt?

 

And an apartment with a bathroom...

 

On a serious note
I'm looking for a girl that looks like this


To be honest

 

Makeup solves that issue.

 

Just don't get her face wet.

 

I have question, Why is it so important to find the one? Or to get laid? Once you're comfortable with the way you are you don't need these stuff to prove that. You only need it if you're not secure in your confidence. Because as i said, You get to feel special because you were picked specifically instead of developing self-likability and self-respect that then creates self-confidence. I personally call it, Temporary Confident, Or Unstable Confident. That you need someone else to bolster and solidify your confidence.

 

That's called narcissism or co-dependent (which really should be considered it's own personality disorder).

[Dermain]

I see. Sorry about that, I don't know much about psychological terms.

 

They're usually co-morbid (go together). For example, a narcissistic person would seek out people that would "depend" on them (regardless of how long it lasts) because that's how they help build their self confidence (which is generally quite low in private). A person with a co-dependent personality generally seeks the same thing, and will also bring down the other person's confidence in order to keep the dependency.

 

The people most at risk for this happening would be people with dependent personality disorder (or DPD tendencies). These people need someone else to tell them what they should be doing, and will not proceed with an action without trying to find someone how they should do it (such as what clothes to wear). They tend to be clingy, fear rejection, and will tolerate extreme abuse. 

 

I knew a person with this disorder at one point. She relied on her "best friend" (who was a narcissist) for everything, and she would go out of her way to make sure that her "best friend" was happy with her. She regaled me about stories of her "friend" waking her up at 6am so the she could drive her to the mall. She also relied on this "friend" for what she would wear, who she should speak to, who she should accept gifts from, etc all the while being constantly berated. 

[Dermain]

I have a question, If you don't mind me asking, Do all narcissists seek out people that would depend on them to build their self-confidence? Or, There're some cases that build their self-confidence because they completely believe in themselves and what they're doing?

 

They wouldn't be narcissists if they completely believed in themselves.

[TheBunz]

Alright... so my image from yesterday got removed, I admit.. It was a bit top of the line but it was all in good faith, I just really love Ben Stiller and I didn't mean anything by it but I'll apologise Bunz! I didn't mean to make Ben Stiller give you the finger on his little scooter, it was just a little joke...

I didn't even get upset. No worries

[TheBunz]

They wouldn't be narcissists if they completely believed in themselves.

I thought we established that you had narcissistic.

[Qwib Qwib]

And then I noticed this thread was made by BSN's playboy.