So I have just started to stalk this lovely community and gotten addicted to screenshots and getting the best out of my playtime in graphic. I have been reading tons of stuff, but my non-english native language and my brainfarts is preventing me from understanding whats most likely very simple... 
Here it goes, and; if this has been written somewhere else I appologise, I been reading tons the last week, but my eyes is starting to cross around itself...
I have installed the Cinematic tools. Fiddled around with it for a while, having trouble with getting the colours etc to change, but im sure ill figure it out, I seen a lot of post in this thread about it, will read it again and this time try to make it stick in my teflon-brain 
My issue is: I really wanna use SweetFX. Last night I tried to install the ones you use, failed, cause I didnt understand (Ill come back to that later) and instead installed the one I found on Nexus. Altho... I dont really like the constrast used there, been looking at the screenshots from the ones on the sweetfx page and there is some that look lovely to me. Now...here is my issue:
I am having trouble understanding things about sweetfx and how to do it. Im gonna explain how my head works: (Put on your ailien-hat and prepare for inpact)
I am looking at the Lostis - DA:I Preset L&C *Final-UPDATE! - and in my head that is the "base" for the whole "mod"-if you will. Or...platform.
And, on THIS page i look at it as alternatives/different presets of the sweetfx... Are you following me? (*chuckle..poor folks...)
Now... As I THINK it is.. is that I first should download the one i called Platform/base. (Lostis - DA:I Preset L&C *Final-UPDATE!)
THEN my head tells me that if i download some of the other ones from the second page and choose f.eks Cookies Preset cause I like his screenies....then I will have to download that and change out some of the files from the "base"-sweetfx.
(the more i write the worse it gets in my head, oh my...)
Anyway, this is how I think it is. But any Readme-files has only made me more confused to be perfectly honest. If I am correct, what files do i need to switch out?
I have no plan to play around with notepad and change things, this is to far beyond my skills as im quite sure you understand. I just wanna get it in place and play...
Now, many say they have problems with getting it to work. So far, the only thing I did with it when I tried to install it last night was to pack it out at the right place and leave it there, not really knowing what to do with the preset files... I have already removed the Nexus-one since I dont want it.
What I am looking for is a Guide for The Less Smart-ones.
It is strange that this baffles me so much cause all the fixing I have done lately with mods and make everything to work..but this - no.
info: I got win 7 home premium 64, and a nvidia graphic card.
Cause of this I didnt wanna try to follow the guide that was posted further up cause that was for win8 and radeon and stuff.
(I had win 8 already installed with this new pc, but I used a pitchfork and removed it with force and violation and gently installed win 7 - thats how much i "love" win 8...)
SO...I wish you good luck at trying to wrap your head around this, and in advance I will thank anyone who tries to help me. You poor souls...
PS: I been stalking a lot of this forums for a long time, including the modding forum ect. I cannot reply there, anyone know why? Is it cause I havent been active with posts before, or...? I made a account and are following groups... I love what our modders do and wanted to thank them and write my testingresults on their hard work, but I cant seem to do it. I am indeed a newbie on this forums, but oh how I love this community with its nice people and resepct for eachother... I admire that so much. You dont find that everywhere!