Unfortunately, that's true. While DA is way better than ME in this, female protagonists still aren't equal. The animations in cutscenes are a dead giveaway. They could have been more neutral, but they were often decidedly male, regardless of your Inquisitor's gender.
Yes the fact that they are so obviously macho male says a lot on its own.
Aside from that and as a whole there are many little things:
The diplomat and the spymaster are females, the general is male. Cassandra balances this a bit, but her vulnerable side is a typical "girly" side. You can't be Vivienne to Bull (even if he would probably prefer it), you can't return the aggressiveness to Cullen, Morgans growth is shown through her motherhood, when you are appointed "Inquisitor" your symbol is a huge sword and you stick it to the sky, etc. If you really sit and analyze the semantics you can pile quite a bit.
Writing from a gender neutral perspective is very difficult, there are very few games that do it successfully and they do it successfully because the protagonist is always a blank state and is typically the only humanoid or even the only living thing that exists in that environment.