Not to mention the whole Solas thing and him running down the Dalish, making them out to be stupid. He gets real sarcastic when my male Lavellen claims to be a "true" elf and how they've been trying to maintain their culture since the humans "broke their treaty" and took away our land but then says something interesting among the sarcasm, "oh look the Dalish got something right", so apparently he does agree we were sold out by Orlais.
I can't agree enough with this. I love Solas and I romanced him with my female Lavellan and would do it again if anything happened to my "canon" save... but yeah. Both Solas and Sera take shots at the Dalish every chance they get, jump on all their flaws, and quickly dismiss their virtues. Sera refuses to change her stance no matter what, but Solas can come around... only if Lavellan impresses him and takes a pro-Dalish stance. If the PC is not Dalish, or doesn't defend his/her people, or throws his/her people under the bus, Solas goes on thinking they're the worst of elven kind.
Actually the number of things the Dalish got wrong is pretty much balanced out by what they got right. They believe all their ancestors were magical: correct. They believe their ancestors were immortal: correct. They believe that Fen'Harel was responsible for the loss of their gods: correct. Things then started to go wrong because they could no longer contact their gods: correct. Okay their empire was already in decline/possibly destroyed when Tevinter took over but essentially Tevinter was built on the back of elven magical knowledge since it would appear that practically everything Dorian recognises as ancient Tevinter magic, Solas maintains that the elves got there first. Even the Vallaslin is largely correct since it is something only done when you come of age and you choose your image based on your devotion to a particular god. Dedicated devotion to a particular god and following their every whim could be seen as slavish devotion; again we only have Solas' word on this. I was thinking that perhaps the Dalish insistence that you have to be worthy/adult to receive your Vallaslin could be a partial memory. May be those without the markings were considered the lowest in society in ancient times and left to do the menial tasks, while the "favoured ones" were adopted by a particular god/priest representative. [snipe]
I'm glad you mentioned this, because I've been thinking it for a long while. The narrative, other characters, and even most players keep saying, "The Dalish were wrong! They got everything wrong!" For all the reasons you said though, no; the Dalish didn't get it wrong. They were missing a few details here and got a few more mistaken, but for the most part they were right. They did used to be a great empire; they did used to be immortal; their gods were real; their pantheon were betrayed and somehow taken out of commission; Fen'Harel is in some way responsible for the elves' fall; any gods that can hear them have abandoned them for not being worthy of saving (Mythal, you ******). The vallaslin are designs that honor the gods.
Sure, the Dalish miss a few details (like their great empire having court intrigue, corruption and slavery like any great empire (Orlais and Tevinter), there being infighting among the pantheon before Fen'Harel did whatever he did, and the vallaslin that are meant to honor the gods also happening to be imposed on slaves by their masters), but on the whole the Dalish got it right.
Certainly more right than most Andrastians in the game, for worshipping the PC as the "Herald of Andraste" because they believe the woman seen in the rift with you was Andraste and the mark on your hand was bestowed by the Maker when he sent you through the Veil. Yet, when it's revealed that they were wrong because woman seen in the rift with you was Justinia and the mark was placed by accident when you disrupted a nefarious ritual by an ancient magister darkspawn, the characters are quick to say, "Well, you're still Andraste's Herald because you're still carrying out her will and/or the Maker helped you indirectly," I thought, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! Moving the Goalposts fallacy!"
Funny how when Andrastian characters are proven to be plain wrong about the Herald of Andraste, the characters and narrative are quick to defend that they could be indirectly right, or it's fine that they choose to believe the lie because it gives them faith/comfort/stability/purpose. YET, when the Dalish are proven to be mistaken about specific details of a lore they still get right overall, other characters and the narrative are quick to condemn them as, "The Dalish got it WRONG!"
Anyway, having been critical of the Dalish myself in the past and certainly not agreed with everything they believe or do and been more sympathetic towards the city elves, I am now back on side with my Dalish origin in DAO and going to defend them if permitted to do so in any future games/DLC. The Dalish are being sold short by the writers and the 3-mage rule is totally illogical based on their previous cultural values.
Agreed so much. I used to be really critical of the Dalish, dumped on them every chance I got, and was all "Rah! Rah! City elves!" Then I realized what contrived lengths the writers go to depict them as unlikable and unreasonable as possible, and what lengths other players went to condemn them for every fault yet dismiss/undermine every virtue. When I realized I was guilty of the same fallacies, I started looking at their history, culture, values and goals with eyes unclouded by hate, and realized I don't think they're nearly as bad as the writers or other players make them out to be. If anything, I admire them for standing by their religion and heritage in a world that wants to proselytize them.
I still love city elves, and my "canon" Warden is still a City Elf, but I like the Dalish too and I also think they're being sold short by the writers.