I know how to solve this... refer to everybody as "it"! 
Wait.. no. That wouldn't work... it's too offensive.
@ Octarin: (sorry, that quote button doesn't seem to work for me)
As a member of the LGBT community, I am actually disgusted with the PC influence.
This is how I see things....
I don't have an issue with gay marriage, and equal rights and all of that jazz... in fact, I see it as a worthy goal.
But the way the typical PC/SJW crowd push it... it's "victim mentality".
I absolutely despite "victim mentality" and I think the LGBT community is losing its self-respect by going so far out there with "gimme my rights" which has translated to "Pity me, pity me. I'm gay/transgender so give me my rights."
For starters, with gay marriage... it seems to me like we, as people attracted to the same sex, are seeking society and government approval to love somebody. I love whoever the f*ck I want and couldn't give two tosses what society and especially government thinks. I think it's degrading to get on my knees and beg the state to recognise this when it's none of their business anyway...
Why not just have some private ceremony to celebrate love? Why do we have to have a government approved document and a ring?
I've experienced discrimination over my sexual preferences... so I know firsthand that it isn't nice. But I also think it's an individual matter, for the individual to deal with. If they don't like me because I prefer clam to sausage, then I don't like them simply because somebody who thinks that way can actually exist... and that's that. Whatever issues stem from that is, again, like I say, an individual matter for said individual to deal with.
I know for a fact that at the end of the day, PC agendas and propaganda (while having good intentions) go nowhere. People will continue to be... people. I am sorry but you cannot expect a diverse group of people in society to be at peace, especially when it's conflict that we get off to. We are not superior to animals... in fact, I could say that animals are smarter than people because they are not bound to ridiculous governments with all of their paperwork BS, don't require a "higher power" to dictate how to live -- it just comes naturally.
So yes, political correctness is a counter-productive cancer. I am so glad that I joined this forum and have had discussions with many others who see through the farce that it really is.
Want to know the ironic truth?
Political correctness is just another tool of power -- the very tool it fights against. Those who preach it are not better than the so called bigots themselves.
I am a bigot.
But hey -- least I'm an honourable one. 