You don't understand.Vivienne was born as a poor commoner.She was less forunate too.She sees all "less fortunate people" as people who weren't skilled enough and failed to grab power when they could.
She rose above her circumstances and she thinks everyone has the opportunity to do so but only those who are capable enough to deserve a good life live it.
I do understand that but while she acknowledge that each circle life was different from one another she admit that her was a tamer experience than say the Kirkwall circle.
I do get it that Vivienne fought for everything she had from her title, her position, her political powers. She totally earn them with her capabilities that while being a mage was her way in, it was who she was at the core that let her thrive where she was.
My train of thought was the real Cole, as a mage, was essentially under her care too? Cole died in the White Spire circle and I am not sure where Vivienne was a first enchanter. That she seems to lack symphathy and outrage that a fellow mage died of abuse and neglect from the supposed guardian seems wrong.
I also get it that in this current scenario, the mage were brats and the templar were thugs. That mages seems to lack the understanding of how dangerous they can be if they let their guards down. That templars often abuse their charges since they were train to keep distance from the mages, with good reason, but that also lead to dehumanizing and other problems.