The problem with desire demons isn't that fact that there are breasts. Its the fact that the breasts are just shoved in there for no reason. Its not about being desirable, as you get exactly the same thing when they are appearing before straight female characters.
If they changed it so sometimes they were sexy naked men instead of always being women, there would be no problem.
At least as far as I'm concerned, you are attempting to carry owls to Athens. Full agreement from me, hence my suggestion for a switch on character creation. Shouldn't even be *that* hard to implement. The current form is a bit sexist, in that it always assumes the character to be interested in women, which obviously not everybody is.
I will tone it down the day Varric gets a brazilian wax and Isabela wears a goddamn coverall...
But... the chesthair! That's what makes Varric sexy.
And Isabela? A coverall? I don't even...
But, I firmly support people to like whatever they want and I believe that if people would worry a lot less about what other people like, they would make their own lives and those of everyone around them a lot easier.
This shouldn't have to be said, but thank you.
My point here is...do you know what is also in DA:O, but not in DAI?
Abominations
Werewolves
[...]
Yet, not once have I seen anyone call out Bioware for leaving these out of DAI, while Desire Demons and Broodmothers have probably been brought up at least 100 times in the last week alone...why aren't people noticing these things if it isn't about the boobs?
Eh, I think your perception must be very narrow if you missed me clamoring for a lot of those. I dearly miss the likes of the god-damn old Rhyming Tree! Or of his nemesis, the Mad Hermit -- both were brilliant atmospheric additions that brought wonder to the world of Thedas. Shale was awesome, and my mouth is almost frothing from having said so often that I miss similarly well-written characters and atmospheric additions in DA:I. This game is mushed potatoes with just a dash of salt. I miss peperonis, cream, glazed onions, chocolate, etc. (not all at the same time!).
Oh, and I don't care for Shrieks. Blasted vermin.