Assuming that I just don't like the character is simplistic, petty and dismissive. Shall I assume by your passive aggressive bolding, italics and underlining that you romanced him, got overly attached and, as such, are unable to have a discussion about who he is and what he did without getting emotional about it?
I had no problem with Blackwall. He was just...there, for the most part. After the reveal, I have opinions about his character that aren't favorable. That doesn't mean I think that he's totally without a conscience. It's partly that conscience and disgust with himself that led to him giving up his charade, imo, not his respect for my Inquisitor. If anything he came off as resentful of my Inquisitor during the scene about the dog, not inspired. I'll end this by saying that following what your conscience dictates can still be a selfish act. It doesn't matter if another is saved in the process. If he was disgusted with himself and decided to give up his lie because he couldn't live with it anymore, it's still about him rather than Mornay.
Also, I don't believe people change so much as they adapt. And plenty of murderers can claim that they've changed and some can even prove it with good deeds. Does that mean they have? Perhaps, but I'm not one to give them the benefit of the doubt. But there will always be someone who will give them that benefit, I realize, as evidenced by the fact that even Charles Manson has a woman convinced that he's a good guy.
If I choose to use some bolding, italics, and/or underling for emphasis or employ a certain amount of sarcasm/snarkiness, then too bad? I think the entire body of my posts on the matter generally show that I'm usually more on the side of objective truth - no matter how bad it is - which is why I so often point out the severity of Rainier's cirmes and have never, ever shied away from the fact that he was a terrible person six years in the past. Therefore, I have to laugh at the implication that I'm using italics, bolding, and/or underling in a passive-aggressive manner because I'm overly attached to the character due to the romance. Hey, I'm openly and overtly sarcastic about things in general (when I am being full-on sarcastic).
What I also am is someone who is tired of repeating the same crap over and over again, so yes, I will emphasize certain statements if I feel like it so that I - hopefully - won't have to say whatever I just said again anytime soon (woops, bold italics - call the passive-aggressiveness police on me!). Now I pointed out the earlier post where I responded to someone else about the issues of the non-romanced Inquisitor and why - even in a non-romanced state - what he does is selfless. I maintain that giving up his own life to save another man's life is the exact opposite of selfishness.
You stated that everything he did was selfish while ignoring (or missing) that post. If it makes you happy, then I'll rephrase things - how about we go with you're "meh" about the character (instead of disliking him) yet seem to feel strongly enough about the topic to continue claiming that he was behaving selfishly despite evidence that shows that the opposite is true. By the way, if you're going to bring something like Charles Manson and some attention-seeking nutjob into a situation that isn't even remotely similar, then I guess that you're the one who's not interested in having a serious discussion about things.
And I actually hope that you were being sarcastic about that Charles Manson thing because if you actually seriously believe that, then...hahaha! Per earlier posts in here discussing the issue of whether or not someone has really changed and/or is capable of change - I'll repeat what I said (as tedious as this is) about there being a clear and recognizable difference between someone who committed a terrible crime and is a one-time offender versus a person who is a narcissistic sociopath (of the serial-killing variety). Most normal people should be able to recognize that difference and judge a person accordingly. The one-time offender can change - the sociopath will never change.