They could give us a city elf origin. It wouldn't cost them anything, it changes literally nothing since we won't even met our dalish clan. But now, op is right - playing pro-dalish makes no sense story-wise and playing as a dalish it makes no sense for them to be anything but pro-dalish. BW decided for us what our character will be. And this is bs. I hate how all our responses to Solas are offensive at best, you can't even roleplay playing as an elf, you're pro-dalish and you know better, period.
You do realise you don't HAVE to play a completely pro-dalish elf, yes?
Nothing is stopping you playing a Dalish Elf that believes in both the Elven Gods and the Maker, nothing is stopping you from NOT being a total superior *******.
How many conversations are there where that is taken out of our mouths? Once, maybe twice? With Solas, even then, you had the option of answering rather vaguely if I remember. And Solas in generally most disapproves of the Dalish in general anyway, (and to be fair to him, he has damn good reason too), so you're kinda in a lose lose situation regardless.