My Canon Warden was in romance with Morrigan, plus the DR simply screamed a more interesting sequelbait storyline so it was a no brainer. There is a tragic charm to the US + human baby, but that scenario would always be second. I'm also on the Pro-Old-Gods team, I refuse to destroy an ancient being without even knowing what it truly is. I always thought of the Archdemons as victims of the Blight like any other. An untainted God could be the key to a final solution for all we know, and I absolutely want to meet one.
None of my female Wardens romanced Alistair, but even if there was one I would still make him do the DR. No harm done in making sure we would both survive and giving a lifelong emotional crutch for a person who could really use one. (I was pretty sure the baby wouldn't have fiery breath and tentacles either way.)
After Inquisition, I'm further convinced to always go Ritualin'. Kieran is too much of a cinnamon roll not to have, I'd feel a bit empty inside.
As for Loghain... I understand the Pro-Redemption people, it's a fair enough ending. I don't deem Loghain to be worthy for that chance though. (I sure wish I could execute him without his daughter watching, I feel bad for Anora.)
Yeah and my issue is someone doesn't magically stop being self absorbed narcissist because they squeeze a kid out.
Except that she turns away from her earlier narcissism even without a kid. In the Temple of Mythal she admits being wrong about Cory wanting the Eluvian in any world state. A true narcissist never admits being wrong. That and she's genuinely humble towards the Inquisitor throughout. Another thing that a narcissist never does.
Perhaps ten years give people plenty of time to be introspective and face their past mistakes, huh.