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[DollyLlama]

Gimme Alistair or Garrus, Zevran meh.

I'll take the Wayward Bard.

[Ashaantha]

I'm quoting you, but this is not directed directly at you.

Why is it a problem if people haven't had sex for a while? It's not all about sex and that is one thing that drives me mad about society.

 

It's more that sometimes when in a serious relationship that's lasted more then 5 years, feeling like you are unattractive to your significant other can be very detrimental to your mental state, mostly of views about yourself. Relationships are definitely not all about sex but it's that feeling of not being wanted at all by the person you're with that can really hurt so not really about act of sex itself.

[Donk]

It wasn't directed at you. More like one of those questions you ask in an open discussion.

 

Ahh. Well to answer seriously..

 

It depends on how one views sex. Some people consider it romantic, sacred and special. Others see it as territorial, pissing contests, trophies and competition

 

 

Well, when... IF they get here

 

Fat chance. Last I heard, Beren was out trying on a new nurse outfit

[Tragedienne of Heavens]

For the DQ girly horde

And this for her Royness

Spoiler

 

Edit: OOL, dammit.

[Ashaantha]

-snip-

 

And I'm thinking this conversation is probably gonna send poor Ash into a straitjacket

 

Aww you do care!

[Donk]

It's more that sometimes when in a serious relationship that's lasted more then 5 years, feeling like you are unattractive to your significant other can be very detrimental to your mental state, mostly of views about yourself. Relationships are definitely not all about sex but it's that feeling of not being wanted at all by the person you're with that can really hurt so not really about act of sex itself.

 

I get that.

 

In my experience.. there is the honeymoon stage. Where you **** like jackrabbits non stop. Then the relationship stagnates, becomes more like habit.. is boring.. and not a lot of sex happens. It isn't necessarily to do with how attractive you are to your partner, I think it's a case of something new and exciting turns into a "routine", people and their partners take each other for granted, and so forth.

[Donk]

Aww you do care!

 

Of course I do!

 

I'm a selective arsehole

[DollyLlama]

And this for her Royness

Spoiler

 

 

This made me think of this:

 

[Donk]

For the DQ girly horde

And this for her Royness

Spoiler

 

Edit: OOL, dammit.

 

I hope you don't consider me a member of this girly horde.. cause that's weak, man.

 

I drink this

 

[LightningPoodle]

To much to catch up on.

 

Morning everybody!

[Ashaantha]

I get that.

 

In my experience.. there is the honeymoon stage. Where you **** like jackrabbits non stop. Then the relationship stagnates, becomes more like habit.. is boring.. and not a lot of sex happens. It isn't necessarily to do with how attractive you are to your partner, I think it's a case of something new and exciting turns into a "routine", people and their partners take each other for granted, and so forth.

 

I personally never had the "honeymoon stage" happen. But that's probably obvious by now. Once every 3-6 months isn't exactly routine or often either, but nada since I found out I was pregnant? so is it me? I bet it is.

[Tragedienne of Heavens]

This made me think of this:

 

-snip-

LMAO, you come more often over here, I like you.

 

I hope you don't consider me a member of this girly horde.. cause that's weak, man.

 

I drink this

 

-snip-

You will drink it and like it.

[Ashaantha]

I hope you don't consider me a member of this girly horde.. cause that's weak, man.

 

I drink this

 

-snip deliciousness-

 

i'll join Donk drinking that awesomeness rum..

[DollyLlama]

I hope you don't consider me a member of this girly horde.. cause that's weak, man.

Well then, here's something that'll getcha drunk.
 

Spoiler

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LMAO, you come more often over here, I like you.

 

*snip*

I try, but usually you guys are going strong (that's what she said) well passed my bed time.

[Lynroy: Final Edition]

It's more that sometimes when in a serious relationship that's lasted more then 5 years, feeling like you are unattractive to your significant other can be very detrimental to your mental state, mostly of views about yourself. Relationships are definitely not all about sex but it's that feeling of not being wanted at all by the person you're with that can really hurt so not really about act of sex itself.

Okay, thank you. I can understand that.

Now let's get back to drinking. I ran out of likes damnit. *drink*

[Lady Luminous]

For the DQ girly horde

And this for her Royness

Spoiler

 

Edit: OOL, dammit.

 

Oooh! I call dibs on the pink one!

 

Thanks lovely.

[Lynroy: Final Edition]

To much to catch up on.

Morning everybody!

I'll help you catch up.

Sex. *drink*

[Ashaantha]

mm Somersby alcoholic apple cider in the best portable esky around.

 

[Lady Luminous]

I personally never had the "honeymoon stage" happen. But that's probably obvious by now. Once every 3-6 months isn't exactly routine or often either, but nada since I found out I was pregnant? so is it me? I bet it is.

 

Unless that's a reaction to possibly worrying about having more kids?

 

Either way, I'm so sorry honey.

[Donk]

I personally never had the "honeymoon stage" happen. But that's probably obvious by now. Once every 3-6 months isn't exactly routine or often either, but nada since I found out I was pregnant? so is it me? I bet it is.

 

Oh.

 

Well what I meant is.. the honeymoon stage I referred to, is when you first get with somebody. It's new, it's exciting, there's good times and passion.. it goes really well.

 

Then perhaps (only speaking hypothetically now) you move in with your partner, and the excitement sort of dies off and the relationship becomes like a routine, or a habit, and the sex eases off. Nobody is in the mood any more.

 

In your case.. I dunno what your boyfriend is like so I can't say much. It could very well be he just has a low sex drive, but even so I could understand why you would feel a little insecure..

[Tragedienne of Heavens]

It's more that sometimes when in a serious relationship that's lasted more then 5 years, feeling like you are unattractive to your significant other can be very detrimental to your mental state, mostly of views about yourself. Relationships are definitely not all about sex but it's that feeling of not being wanted at all by the person you're with that can really hurt so not really about act of sex itself.

I agree with Ash. For me it's not the sex itself but the feeling of belonging and the level the relationship has to achieve to get there.

[Donk]

LMAO, you come more often over here, I like you.

 

You will drink it and like it.

 

[Ashaantha]

It's ok, I have these awesome friends. and apparently a host of stranger son the internet to let my huge problem of the past 2 years get out to. lol

 

[Lady Luminous]

It's ok, I have these awesome friends. and apparently a host of stranger son the internet to let my huge problem of the past 2 years get out to. lol

 

 

Anytime you need to vent, I'm always here love.

[Donk]

It's ok, I have these awesome friends. and apparently a host of stranger son the internet to let my huge problem of the past 2 years get out to. lol

 

 

I'll drink to that.