Well, I mod the crap out of the games I play. For Skyrim you can mod in more styles with CC, so I never care too much if it's limited early on. DAO was a bit limited for me hair wise, so I modded that puppy. My avvy is a prime example. I still need to add in the custom tints, but since modding that is a bit more complex, I've been lazy. I'm completely in love with the Ebony armor mod I found because it adds in gold trim. Sadly I don't have screenies of that, just old ones from a fanfic I thought I wanted to write. Gameplay wise there are many things I wish would have gone into Skyrim, like the zoomed in dialog. That's what DAO did as well.
I enjoyed many things about DA2 in spite of hearing so many complaints. The main issue I had with anime-feel was Fenris feeling very Final Fantasy. The default Fem Hawke reminds me of Truble from Grimm.
But with more sass. I do change Fenris' clothing, though. I did a Big Bad Fenris once. I mean, I modded him. I didn't do him yet. 
Skyrim mods: I try my best to find the most toned-down makeup mod there is, then use it the same way I do with my own makeup contouring: earth tones. I also use a custom race called Ashen for humans. I think it pulls from Breton in the default dialog choices, but it could be that the last time I had to import saves, it chose Breton for me before I added all my mods back. Here's a cropped screenie of a recent one I was messing with. Pardon the low graphics. My recent computer purchase was an emergency buy. I gave her darker eyes because I'm thinking up a character story I actually want to write about some time. Perhaps she uses charcoal? lol
And for lolzies. The boys in my Awakening playthrough were misbehaving. I swear, I have to constantly mother them. But I think Anders just wants a spanking. 