About the thread Roaming mentioned (I know we've moved on but I had to leave for a while when I was in the middle of writing this).
I understand the point in some things like sexual content: no one is forced to do the romance part of the game but I see no problem in adding something like a fade-to-black in sex scenes option. It would be their choice to miss that part of the content.
Gore: as Ash said, I don't think they'd do much more than turn on/off blood splatters (which are already very reduced in Inquisition and sincerely, I fail to see how some red spots in the armor can be considered offensive -once again, my opinion-).
ETA: Poodle mentioned a fade to black in death scenes - Here I may disagree, it very much depends on the situation, still some things are directly not shown like when you behead someone in Inquisition.
And language- how does one do that? asterisks for the subtitles and a "beep" every time someone says a "bad word"? I find it a little ridiculous.
Still the OP explained their point politely instead of just demanding things be done the way they want (like most do around here), and that is appreciated.