Drinkquisition! (assuredly nsfw)
#85026
Posté 21 décembre 2015 - 09:13
#85027
Posté 21 décembre 2015 - 10:07
Don't do politics, guys, they destroy friendships.
I'm Lebanese. We have more factions and religious sects per unit population than any other nation on this planet.
This is our motto.
- Rel Fexive, Beren Von Ostwick et Matriarch aiment ceci
#85028
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 01:11
I have been informed that someone is blaming herself for me deciding to take a break from here just for a couple of days so wanted to stick my head in and say this is not the case!
*throws mug at Dienne*
Not the case at all. And thanks to that lovely person who let me know about that self-blaming going on.
To crush the other rumours: It's just with my life completely falling apart this last week I found myself more sensitive to the snippy interactions in here from a lot of people, back and forth. Which has been going on for a month or so now, not just one day ... Probably the sarcasm, which I struggle just 'getting' on a normal day, is included there as well lol. It is just a little too much for me at this present point in time thanks to RL stuff and not needing it in my escape from RL too.
- Tragedienne of Heavens et Beren Von Ostwick aiment ceci
#85029
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 01:24
Oh, maybe she wouldn't have to do all that unrightful self-blame if I didn't step in my shock trooper boots and went on the counter-offensive.
I can be like that... *shrug*
#85030
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 01:24
Sad times.
#85031
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 01:25
But hey, at least the boys had a lot of fun blasting people to hell, and making XCOM jokes while at it!
(Seriously, those guys had so many aliens on their team, they were asking for me to make an XCOM joke)
#85032
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 01:31
But hey, at least the boys had a lot of fun blasting people to hell, and making XCOM jokes while at it!
(Seriously, those guys had so many aliens on their team, they were asking for me to make an XCOM joke)
Yeah, too many high-ranked nutters there. Still, better than facing aimbot 155-to-5 guy any day.
#85033
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 02:08
I have been informed that someone is blaming herself for me deciding to take a break from here just for a couple of days so wanted to stick my head in and say this is not the case!
*throws mug at Dienne*
Not the case at all. And thanks to that lovely person who let me know about that self-blaming going on.
To crush the other rumours: It's just with my life completely falling apart this last week I found myself more sensitive to the snippy interactions in here from a lot of people, back and forth. Which has been going on for a month or so now, not just one day ... Probably the sarcasm, which I struggle just 'getting' on a normal day, is included there as well lol. It is just a little too much for me at this present point in time thanks to RL stuff and not needing it in my escape from RL too.
Stormy, in case you don't come back before I leave for a couple of days while out of town for Christmas, I want to wish you a very Merry Christmas! Much love and hope you have a joyous time! ![]()
This actually goes for everyone, but I was going to say adios late Wednesday before I left...

- Gold Dragon, Rel Fexive, Lady Luminous et 4 autres aiment ceci
#85035
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 02:32
I am equally horrified and thrilled at that mug. Thrilled about the 'stache. Horrified about the text accompanying it. I'll take a drink for each.
- Lady Luminous aime ceci
#85036
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 02:39
Haha, I'm just glad I got a reaction from you!I am equally horrified and thrilled at that mug. Thrilled about the 'stache. Horrified about the text accompanying it. I'll take a drink for each.
#85037
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 02:49
And now I must drink and prepare for another night in the trenches. Just three to go and all that Sparkling Cider is mine.
- Lady Luminous et Tragedienne of Heavens aiment ceci
#85038
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:19
I wanna play DAI again, but I have this nagging need to play a full DA trilogy playthrough from the start for consistency.. Just creating a world state feels contrived, and just loading up playthroughs I've completed four years ago isn't any better.
Why am I so complicated? FFS.
- Serza aime ceci
#85039
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:34
I love creating world states; I've experienced all the combos at some point, so creating an ideal state for the character I'm creating is a kind of artistic expression for me.I wanna play DAI again, but I have this nagging need to play a full DA trilogy playthrough from the start for consistency.. Just creating a world state feels contrived, and just loading up playthroughs I've completed four years ago isn't any better.
Why am I so complicated? FFS.
I just scrapped a character because I forgot to make him a world state and refuse to play with a default Hawke, haha.
- Lebanese Dude aime ceci
#85040
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:44
- Sable Rhapsody, Lebanese Dude et Lady Luminous aiment ceci
#85041
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:54
I love DAO, but I just went on a tilt in a thread
Post and my response:
I have to admit it was a little fun to dig around for all the crappy parts of a game without consideration of the experience as a whole. No wonder people ****** about DAI. I have a new understanding of them.
I have a renewed desire to play DAO now though. I'm all nostalgic.
- Serza aime ceci
#85042
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:55
Oh Trespasser, dear gods how much I love thay DLC. I'm trying to finish any half vanilla playthroughs I have before going through it any more times.Lol reminds me I started a DAO run before Trespasser was announced. That was promptly dropped in favor of doing trespasser 20 times.
- Lynroy: Final Edition et Lebanese Dude aiment ceci
#85043
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 03:55
So... on the subject of tension, disagreements, snippyness, etc.
What I'm about to write may make people uncomfortable. But it needs to be said.
In the early days of DQ, we were just a small group. Now, Poodle mentioned that the reason its falling apart is because people have nothing in common any more (relating to off-topic discussions) but I don't agree. Amongst our DAI discussions, we've had plenty of off-topic discussions. Where sensitive discussions are concerned (I will bring up for example, something pretty recent. The topic of "abortion" was discussed, and despite differing views, it was civil).
Off-topic and political-type discussions are not the issue.
The issue here is, people are saying and doing things that annoy others. It's hinted as much that it is annoying, but it's always said in a "polite" manner. And it never drives home for these people, so they keep doing the annoying things. But people won't say it straight out, because they don't wanna hurt people's feelings, and don't want to put this thread at risk of closure.
That's just one issue. The second issue is, in the early days, we were a crazy mob. We made jokes that were shocking, and sometimes inappropriate. Sometimes it was taken too far. Of course I'm a prime example of this. I can recall a few times I have pissed Roy off with something I've joked about. We sorted it out amongst ourselves.
Recently, I posted a disgusting Gif. Instead of asking me politely or saying, "Hey Donk, that's gross. I don't wanna see that. Please spoiler it or hide it." I got from Foley, "Ugh why do you have to take things too far! Hide it or spoiler it now." And then a post that very much hinted that he would report me.
And this, is the nail in the coffin. I left, because I don't want to have to worry about being snitched on for something offensive I might say. It came to that. That we can't sort things out ourselves and have to run to the mods. And obviously, being the crazy mofo that always jokes about inappropriate and shocking things, it didn't bode well for me.
I got that it may have offended people. And I would have been happy to hide it. But I didn't need that. I simply do not want to associate with people like that. So, while I remain on the BSN, I hang out elsewhere, where people like that don't go, and I can be myself. Simple.
The DQ isn't what it used to be. And I guess I was naive to think that it wouldn't change. But everything does.
- Serza et Tragedienne of Heavens aiment ceci
#85044
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:01
*snip*
I hope you realize the irony in taking offense at one person taking offense. ![]()
#85045
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:03
Oh Trespasser, dear gods how much I love thay DLC. I'm trying to finish any half vanilla playthroughs I have before going through it any more times.
It's so good. I haven't played a Solas romanced elf through it yet. I can't wait.
- Lady Luminous aime ceci
#85046
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:04
I hope you realize the irony in taking offense at one person taking offense.
You obviously didn't get the point.
I stated that I get that people get offended. And also said that in the past, we could sort it out among ourselves. Without having to throw a shitfit and threatening to run to the mods, which is why I left.
#85047
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:06
I think he was trying to lighten the mood, honey...You obviously didn't get the point.
I stated that I get that people get offended. And also said that in the past, we could sort it out among ourselves. Without having to throw a shitfit and threatening to run to the mods, which is why I left.
- Gold Dragon et Lebanese Dude aiment ceci
#85048
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:07
You obviously didn't get the point.
I stated that I get that people get offended. And also said that in the past, we could sort it out among ourselves. Without having to throw a shitfit and threatening to run to the mods, which is why I left.
Maybe that one person who threatened you was having a shitty day and was in no mood. Stuff happens you know. Can't always assume the worst in people.
Hell if I did, I'd have quit the BioWare forums after DAI released. Holy **** this forum was a mess. Good thing the DQ helped cool **** down ![]()
Your posts are always awesome. I'm glad you still hang around BSN.
- Serza aime ceci
#85049
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:10
Maybe that one person who threatened you was having a shitty day and was in no mood. Stuff happens you know. Can't always assume the worst in people.
Hell if I did, I'd have quit the BioWare forums after DAI released. Holy **** this forum was a mess. Good thing the DQ helped cool **** down
Your posts are always awesome. I'm glad you still hang around BSN.
I'm not arguing with you.
After all, part of the reason I left was so everybody could post here comfortably. But I felt like I had to explain the issue of this thread.
Take care, people.
#85050
Posté 22 décembre 2015 - 04:14
So... on the subject of tension, disagreements, snippyness, etc.
The issue here is, people are saying and doing things that annoy others. It's hinted as much that it is annoying, but it's always said in a "polite" manner. And it never drives home for these people, so they keep doing the annoying things. But people won't say it straight out, because they don't wanna hurt people's feelings, and don't want to put this thread at risk of closure.
That's just one issue. The second issue is, in the early days, we were a crazy mob. We made jokes that were shocking, and sometimes inappropriate. Sometimes it was taken too far. Of course I'm a prime example of this. I can recall a few times I have pissed Roy off with something I've joked about. We sorted it out amongst ourselves.
Recently, I posted a disgusting Gif. Instead of asking me politely or saying, "Hey Donk, that's gross. I don't wanna see that. Please spoiler it or hide it." I got from Foley, "Ugh why do you have to take things too far! Hide it or spoiler it now." And then a post that very much hinted that he would report me.
And this, is the nail in the coffin. I left, because I don't want to have to worry about being snitched on for something offensive I might say. It came to that. That we can't sort things out ourselves and have to run to the mods. And obviously, being the crazy mofo that always jokes about inappropriate and shocking things, it didn't bode well for me.
I definitely think you have a point; I think we need to just be honest with one another and be willing to talk things out instead of burying the issues and trying to be polite.
I certainly don't think we should ever be threatening one another with reporting, and there is a certain way to ask someone to spoiler something we may find uncomfortable so their feelings don't get hurt.
I don't want this place to come apart at the seams, and I'm really hoping we can sort this out and come to an understanding as a group.





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