You also can't refer to Cassandra as 'Sugar ******'. The PC is not wholly yours, it is a character you play within the confines of the writing.
ROFL Cassandra would rip your sugar ****** off if you tried, lol.
As for the Harding business, like I said earlier it's the exact same thing. Personally, my problem is that people wouldn't even admit they liked Krem because Krem was trans. Now, if someone gave me a reason, like their stories, or they thought Krem was handsome, etc, then I didn't question that. Didn't call them a liar. But people that were just like "Why are you asking? What's the big deal?" Then it becomes obvious.
Anyway yea, I too admit I like Harding a lot, and it's pretty simply because she's cute and fun to flirt with. That's it. That's a shallow reason to like a character, but then, Harding isn't very deep anyway as presented. She's like your Kelly Chambers.
There's nothing wrong with that, but you can't get on people about Krem if you don't admit you liking Harding or Abelas or whatever is pretty much the same thing, just for different small reasons.