I was not saying you where afraid of physical contact, I was simply using my self as an example of how those who are quick to say no do so because of underlying issues. Yours being a fear of being hurt if I had to guess.
Oh I'm sorry I misunderstood you then. And yes, at least I think so. I gotta admit that sometimes I don't even understand or know why myself, I sometimes think it's fear of being hurt and other times I think it's because I like my freedom because I like my space and I don't need a man around me right now, controlling me, butting in everything, I like being my own person, cause you see, I've used to be with men who has controlled me, insanely much, men who wanted to know my every move, know what I did all the time and such and it scares me to be with someone again I think.