You must only play Bioware games, then. In the grand scheme of things, it still is more like a mere wish than anything that should be expected.
That's what you're saying. What I said was that you can do things like straight up telling Cassandra she's a fool, or in Sera's case, that she needs to grow up.
But since you brought up disagreeing with the companions, yes, that's relevant. People are talking like the Inquisitor does nothing but kiss everyone's ass and is never allowed to question them, which clearly isn't true.
I can't stop anyone from complaining but if they must, I'd expect them to keep it accurate instead of blowing things out of proportion because they don't get everything they want.
What on earth would make you think that?
Asking them to do what they did in previous games is not a wish.
It's obvious that you and I have different views on what constitutes evil choices and behavior. Simply giving your opinion or telling a companion they are foolish is not. I poisoned holy ashes and murdered Leliana, I killed Wynne in the Magi circle, Sided with Branka who killed her own people and wanted to put the souls of others into Golems, I murdered knifed some folks, beat Ohgren back in line, told Alistair he was a moron, then said "it's about time!" when Anora called for his head, then I agreed to having it removed from his body and recruited Loghain. So sorry for not being impressed by a few not so nice words to companions in DAI.
The IQ pretty much does run around kissing their asses. You're allowed to say one or two statements in disagreement, get told off, then the convo is over. You can't tell any of the companions that they are full of it, and can't get rid of any of them directly aside from Sera. Heaven forbid if you actually anger certain companions like Vivienne, then you're stuck watching some stupid tongue tied IQ who for some reason can't tell this woman to hit the freaking road, or to be petty right back at her.
Reporting what I see in game is not blowing anything out of proportion. You simply don't agree with what I report.