2 days ago I made a New state, went through used the Tapestry editing everything, I used the little lock on each one of my choices. Then locked the saved state before exporting it a new game on my Xbox. Then this morning when I went to Skyhold for the first time, It was the wrong gender, none of my choices that I had saved and locked in stayed.
And yes I made sure it was the right one, the date and everything was the same and I still had the Tapestry up when I started the game, all my choices were correct on the Tapestry then but didn't transfer properly or was saved correctly.
It seems to default to the basic. Not correct gender, romance options, and many other things as well. I used New Save1 which was the one loaded into the Tapestry at the time and was exported.
I am afraid to waste another 30+ hours of game time only to see everything look right on the Tapestry when I go to import it only to have it all wrong in game and changed when I recheck the website again.