In 24 pages, someone with a similar point of view as myself surely posted. But I couldn't get through more then a few pages before being overwhelmed by the silliness of some arguments so I skipped.
What I personally find irritating (not offensive mind you) about the naked women on weapons and in almsot every damn decor available in game, is the fact that it is only women. I ended up for example always choosing the Free March decor at Skyhold for one simple reason. It's the only one that doesn't have statues of naked women all over the place. You starting to see the problem? Yes? No? For someone who appreciates the female form, I'm sure this is just peachy, unless they take a moment to think about it and realise it's still a bit of a dumb design choice (in the given circumstances). For someone who is indifferent to the female form, this is just irritating. Now, had they added in the game at least a decent ammount (not even equal, just decent) of options with depictions of male form (on weapons, decorum, etc), I would have been a happy camper and not bothered by the female ones since I would never see them, past the initial "test all to see what it looks like" phase. But those are all but missing entirely and that is unfortunate.
But that's not the case. What happens is similar (although just vaguely similar; DAI is far superior to SWTOR when this is concerned) to what they did in SWTOR with all the "you will swim in women yes? - i know you want women and boobs in your face yes? - no? aaa.. so you want to keep private what you do with ALL the women you bang yes? wink wink" (this is an aproximate quote from a dialogue with DOC, in which my (trying to rp him that way) gay jedi sentinel desperately tried to fence off him and the mandatory-forced female love interest (whom was always dangerously close to going into rape territory, but eh, what can you do, BW seems to have problems in that department - like with rewriting stuff for DAI since it came off as rape to various degrees).
So yeah, basically whoever designed the decors and weapons and other stuff, really, REALLY wants to see naked women. And that would be fantastic, IF they would remember that there are those who don't want to see naked women everywhere OR want to see naked men. It's as simple as that. It's representation.
Oh well, at the end of the day I'm buying BW stuff (as abismally flawed as they are in terms of programming, bugs, etc) because I really want to support one of the only major companies out there who seems to be willing to acknowledge gay people exist (GASP!)! I do get frustrated though when stupid stuff creeps it's way in though, like this instance (or genius* statements like "we always imagined shepard as str8" or "there are no gay people in the star wars universe", etc, etc) or when they display a bizarre lack or respect or consideration for their clients (patch 2 fkng up the graphics... really? at this level of business you release a product of that quality*?). And occasionally I do comment on it, and sometimes I even lose it and go on rants, but it's completely irrelevant. They keep making products I like and want to support, and I'll overlook the occasional or abundant irritating little nonsense they add in it.
PS: As for people finding the presence of naked women on weapons, armors, decor, spoons, etc, "offensive", that is... I want to say stupid, but I don't want to be offensive myself so I'll just say it's nonsensical.