Honestly I'm starting to think a certain someone needs a muzzle. 
PAX East 2014:
Creatures attacking your camp... 
Also...pulling back so others can assist during these attacks and using your allies.
Refugees controlling a fortress and you can rest there and see shops. 
Tactical advantages from Origins will be making an improved comeback. 
I sense that many of you feel that BioWare is not responsible for the purchasing habits of its customers. That's fine. I disagree. I think BioWare has a duty to be responsible
My advice OP is to simply see this as a lesson. Companies lie and withhold the truth and even if they didn't, you may discover that the product isn't worth your money anyway. No company is responsible for your personal spending habits. Their goal is to get money out of you. If you fell for it, just laugh it off and consider it a lesson learned. Most of the people you're fighting with tend to go to any thread that doesn't speak highly of this game to bash the posters there. You're not going to get them to change their minds anymore than they will change yours.
I admit I made a mistake going into media black out with DAI for the sake of not getting spoiled. But I've since realized that games can't be treated like movies. If I spend 10 bucks on a crappy film, it's money I can lose. Spending 60-70 bucks on a crappy game is a blow I'm less willing to shrug off. From now on, I'll be watching my favorite streamers stream the games I want, spoilers or no spoilers and gauge from their experience how I would like it. Let them spend the money before I do. That's most likely your best bet from now on. Just sit on it, put it in your wishlist, wait for reviews, go to the feedback forum to see if their are any issues, and watch streamers who play games that are more your style and who can provide trusted feedback. Do all of that before buying any game.