Would that definition apply to Liara for mot informing Shepard's mother, for those that play as a spacer, for not telling her that she gave his/her body to Cerberus? I mean if my kid died and someone gave my child's body to Cerberus, who suppose to be a friend, I would want that someone to tell me. Or even inform Ashley/Kaidan, if a LI, which I'm sure she would know the two were having a relationship.
Yes I know this is far from the discussion, but still I'm curious
I'm not sure. That's a more nuanced situation. I definitely think she was wrong to keep it secret. I definitely believe Shepard's LI or at least the mother should had been informed. That being said, whether or not it should be called "cruel" I'm not sure.
From a gaming perspective I can kinda understand why they wouldn't: Liara was probably the main LI already (you only had two choices per gender, each including her) so not making content of her informing the LI makes a degree of sense. Shepard only has family if you play spacer so that cuts it down another percentage. While I can understand all that I still think they should have at least did SOMETHING to suggest family/squad were informed.
I can see both sides of that though. On one hand, it would b a scene for such a relatively small crowd and not worth the effort. On the other hand since its just two or three scenes why not make it? They've done similar things before in regards to subtle nods to Shepard's background and past choices. Whats a few more here?
It certainly would had made the reunions flow a bit more naturally, I think. No "I thought you were dead. Well, lets ignore that now and pretend like its old times." The VS is the only one that behaves naturally in the situation but the context of the situation made it ridiculous. If they all knew Shepard was at least potentially being revived the quick dismissal of the whole "two years dead" thing would feel better to me, personally.
Ah, I'm getting away from the question: is it cruel not to inform them. Difficult, very difficult. I mean, she doesn't KNOW what is going to happen. The revival isn't certain. Infact, doesn't TIM originally lead her to believe that they want the body for human burial tradition or something? I'm not sure just what Liara expected to happen, the story was a bit... iffy about that. On one hand they say its for "human customs" and then you hear talk about restoring Shepard's body but then Liara still seems confused and think its just human customs. At the end of the Redemption Miranda points out that they may not be able to do anything with the body due to the damage.
The way Liara reacts throughout the comic I suspect she believes this is just some weird human custom of making the dead presentable or something. She seems pretty lost in the whole ordeal. Though this could just be poor writing. At anyrate, I'm not certain what Liara thinks she was doing in giving Shepard's body to Cerberus. I'm not sure she knows its for the purpose of actually reviving him. In ME2 she hears from her sources that he's alive but didn't really believe it. So again, I'm not sure.
If Liara just thought she was giving the body to Cerberus for some human burial custom or what-have-you, what incentive is there to tell anyone? It's just a dead body. Granted, I'd still want to know, but she is an Asari. I'm not even sure what their customs are when it comes to death (burial robes are a thing, if I remember the advertise on Illium right). Would she think of informing the family of the body? Does the corpse hold any real significance to Asari? She seemed rather confused by Cerberus' desire for the body in the first place. Maybe she expected Cerberus, a pro-human group claiming the want the body for their human customs, would take care of the formalities such as informing the family and friends?
Does she even know humans like to know about this stuff? Liara had practically no interaction with humans before meeting Shepard. She was a recluse. She seems equally confused by "human customs". Do I think she should have told the family and squad? I do. However, because she's an Asari, a very awkward, confused Asari that isn't the brightest star in the bunch when it comes to social matters in the first place... The real question is would she know any better? I'm skeptical. Though, to admit my open bias, I don't have much confidence in Liara's ability outside prothean research and (for some strange turn of events in ME2 onward) combat ability. Her goofing up on this doesn't seem out of character to me.
Still I'm dodging the question - is it cruel? Personally... I'm going to say no. I understand why others will see it as cruel. The mother and friends would probably view at as cruel. Though again, the definition of cruel is to willingly cause harm without care. Unlike Javik, who willing caused pain and didn't give a flock, by his own admittance, Liara didn't seem to understand anything going on so she wasn't willingly hurting anyone. It was inadvertent. Also, credit where credit is due, for all I rag on Liara I do believe that if she actually thought not knowing this would hurt Shepard's mother (if she even knows about her - though she should) or LI or squad... I believe she would have told them.
Though, again, like I mentioned, I'd understand why someone would view it as cruel. I can see two sides to this. Just like I can see two sides to Javik, believe it or not. I still think he was cruel since he willingly and knowingly hurt Liara with his gloating without any tact or care but at the same time I understand why people would wave this off due to the nature of Javik and all the **** he's been through. I actually sit in both camps on this one. I acknowledge that Javik was being cruel and I still side with him being right in the argument. Liara didn't have to come to him and the nonsense she sprouted at him at the end was uncalled for. Javik was just being Javik, Liara was just stirring up melodrama.