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[halafradrimx]

Is this serious?

Yes, it is not a troll.

 

It really looks like one, but in sincerity it isn't.

[halafradrimx]

Well, thanks for the emotional help, guys. I feel a little better now.

 

As for the others whom think this is a troll : no, it isn't. It is a legit sadness and void I am feeling right now. I do not blame you, but I am serious in this.

[Hanako Ikezawa]

There there. I'm sorry Sera made you feel bad. 

 

[WildOrchid]

LMAO

[Qun00]

I take it you didn't know about her preferences before hand.

That said, it sounds interesting. I've never tried flirting with Sera as a male Inquisitor.

Do tell, what were the exact words?

[Joe25]

This normally works for me.

[themageguy]

That's nothing, try pursuing a romance with Lace Harding...

[nikki-tikki]

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I was playing as my male inquisitor and, after getting all the red handkerchiefs I completed the quest to unlock Sera. My first impression was : "So she's a short-haired woman wich is kinda ugly, but expressive. I really liked her! She'll be a great addition to my team! *BAM* You're hired."

 

So, after getting back to Haven, I had a chat with Sera at the tavern. When I hit 4 - the romance option button - she not only reject me, but she cringed at me.

 

Cringed... at... me...

 

Why not only "Look, I like girls. But it's alrit innit?", or something like that, in her silly way to speak?

 

I have been rejected by many women in real life before, but... This is new. I feel like I am crap. Before, I just felt like a loser, but whom could do something at life.

 

 

Can anyone help me? Your help would be very appreciated... Thank you...

 

Don't ever play Solas' romance then...not many guys do, but don't say you weren't warned. 

 

Also Sera is stupid...Cass' romance is the best for guys, though I hear Dorian isn't bad either. 

[rx00]

That makes you depress? Try romance her with a Dalish.

[Boomshakalakalakaboom]

*SNIP*

 

Aww, come now. Don't take it personally. I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I suggest rolling a female if you want to get into the she-elf's pantaloons that badly. Two chicks = hot. Or hey, romance Cass. Cass also = hot.

[Serza]

 

Mwahahahaha.

 

Come on, be like me. Roll a female Elf, despite being a human male. It's fun!

[Sarcastic Tasha]

Allow me to make a sweeping generalisation about men. Subtly can sometimes be lost on them and politely declining can be mistaken for playing hard to get. Maybe Sera has tried the "sorry I only like women" approach before only to be met by a defiant look that says "challenge accepted".

[Disclaimer: as stated above this comment is a generalisation and is not representative of my opinion of all men]

To be honest I think a polite rejection can be worse. Cassandra giving my female Trevelyan (sp?) the can we just be friends talk was harsh even though it was completely civil. (I knew she was straight but my inquisitor didn't and I'm a fan of unrequited love stories.)

[BraveVesperia]

Maybe she reacted like that because she's used to random guys hitting on her and then not taking 'I'm not interested' for an answer? So she made it really clear. Happens often irl. Combine that with Sera's naturally brash, tactless nature and she's not likely to spare your feelings. Though she does later. If you try to hit on her at Skyhold (presumably once you're friends with her), she'll basically say "sorry, but we have too much in common - as in, we're both into women". How kindly she does it might be linked to approval.

 

I'd advise not hitting on Vivienne, OP. If you didn't like Sera's rejection, you really won't like hers.

[BioWareM0d13]

[AWTEW]

That makes you depress? Try romance her with a Dalish.

 

Yeah, it's really hard to do it with a Dalish elf. But it does have it's rewarding moments too.. 'clackity clack'

[Farangbaa]

*snip*

That made me laugh way, way more than it should.

Also OP: she's lesbian. Lesbians tend to reject men. The audicity, am I right?

[Farangbaa]

Don't ever play Solas' romance then...not many guys do, but don't say you weren't warned. 
 
Also Sera is stupid...Cass' romance is the best for guys, though I hear Dorian isn't bad either.

To be honest, I can't believe the Solas romance is the most popular. The guy destroys all you thought about your people in a matter of seconds and removes, if you let him, that thing that you thought made you Dalish.

And then, as if that wasn't enough, he breaks up with you. Because yeah, destroying your cultural identity apparantly isn't good enough.

disclaimer: ignoring Weeks' explanation on the matter. You, the female Elf romancing Solas, can not possibly know this.
 

I'd advise not hitting on Vivienne, OP. If you didn't like Sera's rejection, you really won't like hers.

God, I love that woman so much.

[Panda]

Rejection can never be nice or unhurtful. I recommend reading romance preferences before playing since there is gender- and race-gates. Though if you are only playing male Inquisitor you won't have problem with rest of female options, Cass and Josie since they aren't gated from him. Nor Iron Bull and Dorian.

 

Also I just want to say that short-haired women are awesome and kick-ass.

[Serza]

Maybe he was hoping he could "cure" her...

 

Yuck.

[XxPrincess(x)ThreatxX]

She's comes around about her opinions on mages. After awhile she begins to trust with your magic and friends with Dagna whose all about the magical and strange.
 
The Dalish through...
 
Yeah, that's never gonna change in-game.

Is sad that Sera gets so much hate about not being fond of the Dalish & not immediately bowing down in a Dalish Inq's presence while talking about how their opinions & beliefs are 100% right

[Siha]

You would all take him more seriously if he had a proper avatar, wouldn't you?

Please get some colorful avatar. Looks much more reputable.

[nikki-tikki]

Is sad that Sera gets so much hate about not being fond of the Dalish & not immediately bowing down in a Dalish Inq's presence while talking about how their opinions & beliefs are 100% right

 

She gets so much hate for being ignorant.