*Looks at the direction the thread has been taking*
Personally if women want to put themselves on the front line and be "heroic", let them, Qun or no Qun.
I use quotation marks because being a soldier is not heroic, it is a miserable and traumatic life, just look at most of the veterans of war, in fiction or in reality. Look at Iron Bull or at Blackwall or at Loghain.
Men have been disposable meat shields for the ruling class for ages now so if women want to get that same "privilege" of disposability, let them. So in some ways, I am glad the Qun has this policy of sorts.
After all, fighting for, being injured for, being traumatized for, being indoctrinated for and dying for a totalitarian and oppressive regime is truly empowering... 