Agreed. People consistently misread the Fenris romance and even his entire character. Just a few posts ago he was accused of wailing. He does brood, understandably, but he doesn't wail or moan or b!tch or (insert BSN complaint). He is someone coping on a daily basis with extremely severe PTSD. I agree Hawke doesn't fix him; Hawke is simply "there" for him. S/he's there to listen, to kiss and hold (if in a romance), to simply hold his hand or be there (if a friend). As for Fenris fixing himself, well, can you "fix" yourself in that circumstance? I think Fenris will always be broken, and he understands that. It's about learning to cope with it.
It's a shame we didn't see any of that suffering in Bull's friendship or romance arc. We were told he has personal demons and also that he has an extreme fear of actual demons, but this is rarely if ever discussed. So when people praise Bull for being drama-free it's more to do with the lack of good writing. A truly drama-free character would be someone like Josie.
Well I agree with your first paragraph 100%, haha, and I'm glad to see someone else feeling that way about Fenris.

I disagree with the second half though...kind of...I sort of feel like all of Bull's issues and fears and the complexities of it are laid out in the text, but it's done too subtlety. I can see it, it's not headcanoning, but damn if you don't have to look hard for it . And I don't mean that as PEOPLR ARE TOO DUMB TO GET IT, but that it actually really has too light of a touch, which is a weird thing for a Bioware character to have because usually, if anything, they're gonna swing to the too heavy handed side of narrative.