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[dragonflight288]

True. Solitude can be very healing & cathartic 

 

Yes, but too much of it can drive you insane.

 

Literally.

[mybudgee]

Yes, but too much of it can drive you insane.

 

Literally.

Like so many vices, moderation is the key

 

[dragonflight288]

Problem with nice dudes? They actually aren't. For the most part they are clingy and always think that the other person's life should revolve around them. They always convince themselves they know their crushes at the most but haven't really spent time with them like that. A nice guy would spend a month studying a girl and hate anyone who goes out with that girl because he knows what she has for dinner. In my experience there is a much deeper layer of attraction than how much one person can know about the other. There is lust,there is a rush there is attraction, there is infatuation.

 

This is based on the nice guys I have known, most of the ones I have known also have a lot of rage in them. It is terrifying at times, and the relationships they stem for are always forced but in actuality it should be natural. A girl will not hate you for opening the door for her, but a girl will hate you if you think opening the door for her is a sign of a relationship when she just made it clear

 

Not all nice guys. Some are generally chivalrous people who try to be gentlemen because they feel it is the proper thing to do on a date. I know this one guy who tried to go all out on being nice because he simply hated the idea that you have to be a jerk to get what you want in a relationship.

[Dio Demon]

True. Solitude can be very healing & cathartic 

Subtle dirty joke was too subtle XD

[mybudgee]

I stick to pilsner instead of Vodka?

All of the above

[DeckardWasAReplicant]

Problem with nice dudes? They actually aren't. For the most part they are clingy and always think that the other person's life should revolve around them. They always convince themselves they know their crushes at the most but haven't really spent time with them like that. A nice guy would spend a month studying a girl and hate anyone who goes out with that girl because he knows what she has for dinner. In my experience there is a much deeper layer of attraction than how much one person can know about the other. There is lust,there is a rush there is attraction, there is infatuation.

 

This is based on the nice guys I have known, most of the ones I have known also have a lot of rage in them. It is terrifying at times, and the relationships they stem for are always forced but in actuality it should be natural. A girl will not hate you for opening the door for her, but a girl will hate you if you think opening the door for her is a sign of a relationship when she just made it clear

When I was younger I was the nice guy. And looking back on it most of all my problems where because of me and not the girl. I think nice guys make the mistake of being to nice and doing everything and anything they can for the girl when she can see what they are doing. The only thing I would ask of the woman to do is not to take advantage of these guys and make it clear there is nothing but friendship from the start

[mybudgee]

Hard truth: People who are attracted to those who are already in a serious relationship or emotionally not available are often terrified of real, genuine intimacy.

 

[Ultimate Power Being]

Tha Mack Dad Supreme has entered the thread, and would like to let you know about the BSB (Bioware Social Brothel)'s fiiiine selection of men. You say "Men, Why?" Pimpus Maximus says "Men, why not?"

[dragonflight288]

but here is the thing with that theory. Most of the dates I have seen is guys generally trying to be nice. This is also without taking up the mantra of being the "nice guy." It is natural and the girls can also identify that it is that way. The problem with nice guys is that they try and make it seem like "HEY I AM A NICE GUY! LOOK AT ME." Leave it for the other person to judge. I could go on a date and give a girl a coat without continuously reminding her that I am a nice guy.

 

You are right though. Not every nice guy

 

It also depends on location.

 

I live in a smaller town where everyone knows just about everybody. There are jerks here, especially since I live in a college town, but it's also a lot harder to get away with being a huge jerk and pretending to be a nice guy. You go out to bar, pick up a girl by being suave, then the next day be a huge ***hole because being nice was an act doesn't fly as well. 

 

You'll see that person again very soon. 

 

That doesn't mean it doesn't happen. And that kind of behavior isn't limited to guys as well. People, both men and women, can be pretty mean and vindictive and can manipulate the other. Guys may try to play off as far nicer than they are, but a lot of girls do the same thing from what I observed at the college. 

[Dr.Fumbles]

I do it because I can. Wait, what are we talking about again?
 

[mybudgee]

I do it because I can. Wait, what are we talking about again?
 

Furious masturbation

[Dr.Fumbles]

Furious masturbation

 

Oh, ok. cool.

[Ultimate Power Being]

In my experience with the sex industry, mellow masturbation if always prefferable to masturbation of the, ah, furious type.

[mybudgee]

In my experience with the sex industry, mellow masturbation if always prefferable to masturbation of the, ah, furious type.

In my experience with the culinary industry, anything worth doing is worth doing passionately. Waste time and you waste the most precious resource any of us possess. Besides, there is almost always a chance for another round...

[Dermain]

Generally, no, don't use them.  There are exceptions though*.  Men use way fewer exclamation points than women, even fewer commas.  It's not a breach of etiquette or anything though.

 

*edit: above is a a good example.

 

Of course, you can always use them if you're indicating that a post should not be taken seriously.

 

It also helps that there are certain emotes that imply sarcasm/joking/not being serious anyways, but there are still people that fail at noticing it...       

[mybudgee]

Of course, you can always use them if you're indicating that a post should not be taken seriously.

Crucial point

[Ultimate Power Being]

In my experience with the culinary industry, anything worth doing is worth doing passionately. Waste time and you waste the most precious resource any of us possess. Besides, there is almost always a chance for another round...

Always unpleasant when someone compares masturbation to food preparation, wouldn't you say?

[mybudgee]

Always unpleasant when someone compares masturbation to food preparation, wouldn't you say?

Uh... there are a few parallels. 

 

On topic: I am very effeminate; I use emoticons. Also I love wearing lingerie and crying over romantic comedies!!! i.e.

 

       

[Dermain]

Crucial point

 

Which is why you should be liberal with your emote usage when you're writing a horribly offensive post.

 

The emotes distract from the message!

[Dermain]

I hate it when you offer a guy a handjob and he says "sorry I'm not gay."

 

That's so rude.

 

And when would you have experience with that?