You dont have to be all emotional and "sissy" like but just talk a little out. You have to think about it like this: You often get annoyed when a woman say "I'm fine" when she's not and when she doesn't tell you what's up, well it's the same deal for women, we just wanna know what's wrong so that we can help.
True but a BJ helps more than talking ever could 
Guest_TrillClinton_*
I get that. My last boyfriend, the one I lasted two years with, he was so damn manly and he never talked about his emotions so whenever he was upset he would expect me to mindread him but that would make everything worse. He would go to the gym and punch a boxing bag and deal with it like that instead, it was not healthy. I never knew how to act towards him, it only hurt our relationship.
It never is. I almost have to be at the edge for me to talk about my emotions. I should probably work on that but for the most part I don't think it is really going to change. Like I was talking to a dude that told me, "I like to have a good cry at times." Which is okay for me but I would never really see myself doing it. This is also not me trying to be macho, but the idea of being strong and "cool" has been embedded in me
what emotions, I don't have any emotions. for i have master my emotions.
It never is. I almost have to be at the edge for me to talk about my emotions. I should probably work on that but for the most part I don't think it is really going to change. Like I was talking to a dude that told me, "I like to have a good cry at times." Which is okay for me but I would never really see myself doing it. This is also not me trying to be macho, but the idea of being strong and "cool" has been embedded in me
Exactly how I feel, I grew up on a farm with 3 brother so talking about stuff like emotions or how you feel got your butt kicked
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
It never is. I almost have to be at the edge for me to talk about my emotions. I should probably work on that but for the most part I don't think it is really going to change. Like I was talking to a dude that told me, "I like to have a good cry at times." Which is okay for me but I would never really see myself doing it. This is also not me trying to be macho, but the idea of being strong and "cool" has been embedded in me
LOL no don't start crying!! That's not what I meant!! I just meant, if you are having a bad day because of a fight with someone, then tell her you are having a bad day because of a fight with someone, dont just say "nothing, I'm cool", that's what I mean. Just let her know what's up and then you can still go back to being manly again.
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
True but a BJ helps more than talking ever could
EDIT: MISUNDERSTOOD!!!!!!!!!!
Guest_TrillClinton_*
LOL no don't start crying!! That's not what I meant!! I just meant, if you are having a bad day because of a fight with someone, then tell her you are having a bad day because of a fight with someone, dont just say "nothing, I'm cool", that's what I mean. Just let her know what's up and then you can still go back to being manly again.
lmao that sounds like me. "nah i'm good. Let me go out for a walk." Then the next thing I hear is "babe, are you mad at me?"
Question for your OWA, why do females never say what is bothering them? Like at times I have to spend hours finding out that I wasn't "supporting her"
Guest_TrillClinton_*
True but a BJ helps more than talking ever could
Which is cool, there is nothing wrong with being sexual at all bruh. Even though it is looked down upon in current society.
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
lmao that sounds like me. "nah i'm good. Let me go out for a walk." Then the next thing I hear is "babe, are you mad at me?"
Question for your OWA, why do females never say what is bothering them? Like at times I have to spend hours finding out that I wasn't "supporting her"
For me personally, it's because I often don't wanna show a sign of weakness. I was raised to not show it when I was sad or hurting but to always smile so no one could see it on the outside, so that's how I act, people can usually not see it on me when I'm sad or hurting, And sometimes it's just because I would think it's because he won't care anyway, it wont help telling him so I might as well not.
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
Which is cool, there is nothing wrong with being sexual at all bruh. Even though it is looked down upon in current society.
Wait!! Did he say ******?! I thought he meant sandwich!! LOL Damn it's late here!!!
Wait!! Did he say ******?! I thought he meant sandwich!! LOL Damn it's late here!!!
He did say that! BAN him get him outta here!
When a man is lost and won't stop and ask for directions, what is he suffering from?
Answer: Directile Dysfunction... 
Guest_TrillClinton_*
For me personally, it's because I often don't wanna show a sign of weakness. I was raised to not show it when I was sad or hurting but to always smile so no one could see it on the outside, so that's how I act, people can usually not see it on me when I'm sad or hurting, And sometimes it's just because I would think it's because he won't care anyway, it wont help telling him so I might as well not.
Ahhhh but we actually do care. We just don't want to seem corny again cause that is embedded in us.
The most awkward thing a dude can say is "I love you." It usually involves a lot of pacing and looking up to the skies
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
He did say that! BAN him get him outta here!
I'M SO ****** EMBARRASSED!! LOL
Ahhhh but we actually do care. We just don't want to seem corny again cause that is embedded in us.
The most awkward thing a dude can say is "I love you." It usually involves a lot of pacing and looking up to the skies
Followed by crushing remorse 
Ahhhh but we actually do care. We just don't want to seem corny again cause that is embedded in us.
The most awkward thing a dude can say is "I love you." It usually involves a lot of pacing and looking up to the skies
LOL yeah
that and never having anyone to say I love you too
I'M SO ****** EMBARRASSED!! LOL
Hey its what I do 
Guest_E-Ro_*
Nah brah, if your waiting for a woman and she only takes 15 minutes something is wrong. More likely you'd be waiting about a half hour or more.OP clearly doesn't have any male friends.
What really happens is you turn up at their house and they've already left and you phone them up like "fgt where r u?" and they be like "ay i be at da place bro where r u?"
Every single time. ****** IDIOTS.
It's the women that you spend ****** 15 minutes waiting for when they're still getting dressed.
Also inb4 the lock.
For me personally, it's because I often don't wanna show a sign of weakness. I was raised to not show it when I was sad or hurting but to always smile so no one could see it on the outside, so that's how I act, people can usually not see it on me when I'm sad or hurting, And sometimes it's just because I would think it's because he won't care anyway, it wont help telling him so I might as well not.
Do you play Poker?
It never is. I almost have to be at the edge for me to talk about my emotions. I should probably work on that but for the most part I don't think it is really going to change. Like I was talking to a dude that told me, "I like to have a good cry at times." Which is okay for me but I would never really see myself doing it. This is also not me trying to be macho, but the idea of being strong and "cool" has been embedded in me
what emotions, I don't have any emotions. for i have master my emotions.
I freakin' hate having emotions. I really do my best to avoid it altogether. It makes me super uncomfortable. Like I almost physically can't cry in front of other people. I was super stonefaced at my grandfather's funeral last month (until they played taps, stupid music), to the point where people probably think something is wrong with me. And there might be. Autism spectrum disorders haven't been ruled out. That's sort of a joke. I got kicked out of a research study for failing a screener a couple years ago. I'm sure additional testing would prove that I do not have ASD. But I do have something of a reputation in my grad program.
Guest_TrillClinton_*
Nah brah, if your waiting for a woman and she only takes 15 minutes something is wrong. More likely you'd be waiting about a half hour or more.
Also my friends are dumb, but they aren't THAT dumb.
I have gone to pick up my partners and at times I would waiting in my ride for 45 minutes.
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
Ahhhh but we actually do care. We just don't want to seem corny again cause that is embedded in us.
The most awkward thing a dude can say is "I love you." It usually involves a lot of pacing and looking up to the skies
It's funny how many misunderstandings there are when the genders are talking... To us women it's so easy to say the "I love you" thing and I could never understand why a guy had such a hard time telling a woman he loves her.
Guest_OneWomanArmy_*
Do you play Poker?
Of course! I love poker! I haven't played it in a while though.
Guest_TrillClinton_*
I freakin' hate having emotions. I really do my best to avoid it altogether. It makes me super uncomfortable. Like I almost physically can't cry in front of other people. I was super stonefaced at my grandfather's funeral last month (until they played taps, stupid music), to the point where people probably think something is wrong with me. And there might be. Autism spectrum disorders haven't been ruled out. That's sort of a joke. I got kicked out of a research study for failing a screener a couple years ago. I'm sure additional testing would prove that I do not have ASD. But I do have something of a reputation in my grad program.
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Is your husband emotional? Or are you both beautiful stonefaced people?
It's funny how many misunderstandings there are when the genders are talking... To us women it's so easy to say the "I love you" thing and I could never understand why a guy had such a hard time telling a woman he loves her.
Oh youll here it during the BJ lol
It's funny how many misunderstandings there are when the genders are talking... To us women it's so easy to say the "I love you" thing and I could never understand why a guy had such a hard time telling a woman he loves her.
As a man, "I love you" is one of the most relentless and unforgiving things you could say to someone.
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