- I agree with the gist of your post.
Thanks.
- I definitely agree that you don't counter internal homophobia by banning it outright, but I have to point out that nobody has banned anything.
Agreed. I don't think I inferred that they did. I meant it in a more general sense - and from one perspective, harassing someone until they retract whatever can be looked on as a kind of banning. It was just done a different way, but the intent was pretty much the same.
- Disapproval =/= Banning.
See above.
- If people want to be homophobic or inconsiderate then that's their prerogative. Just don't expect people who react negatively to not speak out.
Of course they will. Just as others will counter them, agree or be indifferent.
- This will inevitably happen on the Internet, where everyone has access to what you put out and everyone will have an opinion on it.
I think everything will inevitably happen on the Internet.
- If the intent wasn't to be offensive, then some people may still misconstrue it despite all the obvious cues. In that case, one should just clarify their stance and move on.
True enough. The responsibility of any intelligent person. Granted, every discussion ever is laden with hidden landmines. Most of the time, you can get lucky. Sometimes you set off your own.
- Obviously in situations similar to this one, the reaction is rather blown out of proportion considering the context. It's just a video game character, not a real person.
Of course, but it does affect real people. Granted, 'affect' is a matter of perspective.
- Still one should understand the correlations.
Indeed. Again, though, perspective. I don't pretend to have the full perspective a gay person has on any particular situation. I can speculate, I can infer, but I can't see it with the clarity they would, nor would I pretend to - but I have my own bias, as I stated above - human beings tend to react the same way, no matter how many labels they slather on themselves, and pain feels the same way to all of us. That, I understand. Being "gay" or "straight" or purple-striped or ass-plated-in-gold should be meaningless and to me, it is. My response tends to be along the lines of:
"So, you're ___?"
"Yes."
"Are you an arsehole?"
"No."
"Okay, then. Carry on."
Mongering or wallowing in it, however, solves exactly nothing. I would hope we would all spend our time more profitably.