To be fair, considering that the OP is pretty dismissive of human characters and people who play them, it's hardly a surprise that this attitude got some pushback and set the tone for the rest of the thread.
In your opinion, sure. I can't stand to look at these flimsy little things, because I want my characters to have at least some physical power and presence. Sure, the human model sadly doesn't have that either (hardly any female character in any game is ever allowed to), but at least it doesn't look quite as pathetic as the elf model.
Indeed. The male dwarves in the setting have something of a distinct look and always did. The female dwarves don't and never did. That's my point.
What's restrictive is the still-prevalent notion that female characters must be "pretty" by real-world human standards, even when their male counterparts get distinct non-human looks. That's not my doing, that's on the heads of the designers and the people pulling the designers' strings.
There are plenty of reasons to dismiss human characters, especially human playable characters in Dragon Age. For one, they have little to no variety. All of them are nobility or had ties to nobility. Cousland, Hawke, Amell, Trevelyan. To say that it is overused would be an understatement. By contrast Elves have had variations between Dalish and City. Dwaves have the most variations which are Noble, Castless and Surfacer. Second is their bonus ability. It sounds good on paper and in early levels but the reality is you can legitimately get 5 extra skill points and you can duplicate Amulets of power make them a poor choice.
What do you mean pretty by real world human standards ? Like have an asymmetrical face, a face that is not scarred, some neotenous features ? Those are just things that make not just humans but other biological creatures or even objects appealing. You know, like how pandas or cats are cute. But that must be the due to some imposition of standards, not because some features are just appealing.
By your logic on flimsy-ness, then the many insects that exist are weak yet there are many who can lift proportionally more weight than their own mass. So it could not be down to the fact that Elves have some biological differences in their muscle and bone structure. It must be because its flimsy. Talk about being human-centric.
So Lace Harding and Bianca Davri look like they do not because they can look like that ? Or are you judging the entire Dwarven female in Thedas based on two women ? That's shallow, don't you think ? Female Dwarves can have beards. Can the other female races grow beards ? I do not think so. Plus, is females with beards pretty?. Furthermore, characters like Cassandra and Vivienne who are not conventionally attractive but still exist in game. You could even say that the Female Elven body is not conventionally attractive.
Your entire argument is based on a human-centric perspective. An extremely limiting perspective and one that is most likely driven by self-insert.