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[Dobby]

Men with big egos are a definite no. Also men who think way too higly about their looks.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

 

-no job is a big one,  the lady coming home in the summer while the dude is still in socks and tanktop while occupying the air conditioner is frustrating.

 

no its not

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Well according to a recent artical nen cant win eather way. if you treet awoman the way you treat a guy. Masogany if you treat her better Masogany.

on a date you HAVE to read her fekin mind or you are the scum of the earth and she has the right to burn you allive you masoganistic pig.. 

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Depends on the lady I guess but most of the experience I have seen has been of this sorts

well if they both arent working they can occupy the air conditioner together

[Seraphim24]

Well according to a recent artical nen cant win eather way. if you treet awoman the way you treat a guy. Masogany if you treat her better Masogany.

on a date you HAVE to read her fekin mind or you are the scum of the earth and she has the right to burn you allive you masoganistic pig.. 

 

It's all about body language and reading stuff in the atmosphere that's not particularly express or explicit, there's nothing really random about it.

[SwobyJ]

Not girl but gay guy (so many notes may be relevant but some perhaps less so). 

 

-The worst is simply a body, mind, persona that is worn down and doesn't seem capable of anything anymore. Even the scrawniest guy can be attractive if the mind is trained (quick wit, etc). Even the dumbest guy can be attractive if he has muscles and a big heart. Basically, show SOME effort SOMEWHERE.

 

-But purely physically, if you're someone who looks like you've just given up on your body (like a lot of guys by their 40s and super often by their 50s), then that's a lot of attractiveness lost. And its sad too, because many will admit that guys actually can get more attractive into their middle age (30s-40s, maybe 50s) to a greater degree overall compared to women (30s-20s, maybe 10s.. yeah whole whole 'jailbait' junk). If you're in your 30s, for example, and you're not keeping up in shape, that's a big turn off. People may not be looking for Adonis, but they don't want the feeling that within the next decade you'll be unhealthy and gross.

 

-Vitality. This doesn't necessarily mean 'keeping in shape', but instead having a look that doesn't say that you'll be unable to do tasks in front of you (whether it be sex or work or sport, etc). You don't need to look young. Actually, in many ways, that almost counts against men. But you need to look awake and capable.

 

-Baldness depends. Receding hairlines (which all men get at some point) can actually increase attractiveness. It can turn a weird headshape+hair combo into something much more sexy. But once you're balding, you probably need to embrace it, and shave it all off. And then since visual focus gets changed, you probably need to work more on having a fit looking body and handsome face.

 

-If you look like you're 'dead end' in everything, I agree, it isn't attractive. Do you need a car? Not necessarily. A house? Nope, not quite. But if you look stagnant and living in low conditions with low ambitions, it doesn't bode well. You don't need to fight for the best, but damn, at least fight for the average!

 

-Body type itself may not matter. If short, you can still make it work. If a tower, you can still make it work. If a twig, you can still make it work. If stocky, you can still make it work. Its the 'making it work' part that makes a man attractive.

 

-Hygiene does matter. Men can fall into not just mediocre hygiene, but utterly disgusting habits that can instantly turn others off.

 

-'Masculinity' and 'Femininity' actually often doesn't matter as much as you'd think (even for hetero, not just ******). Embodying SOME masculine traits seems more necessary, but you can have a femme *insert lots of things* and still be very attractive to women. It may be gender stereotypical, but they're looking for someone capable - not just something pretty or hot to look at.

 

-As said above, learning how to read body language and implicit statements or meanings is a valuable skill that not as many men acquire, and when they do, it is still often in a more concrete way than it ought to be. Yes, some women can be nuts, but many others are just very good at something that you're not, so you better brush up on interpersonal skills. Most don't take to extremes. Really. They're not 'feminazis', nor 'bimbos'. Just people who may think somewhat differently than you sometimes. Value that, and hold a relaxed confidence it. That IS attractive.

 

-Kindness and empathy. There's a degree where this just gets annoying ('man up' sentiment often goes directly against this), but having kindness and empathy for others, combined with a masculine attitude, is wonderful. In general, it is attractive to see someone fit into a 'role', while still clearly showing that they're able to be more than that role, having more traits than that role would more strictly allow. Make money... and make time to spend with her. Take leadership... and know when to delegate and when to step down. Exercise a ton... but understand there's times to pig out. And be a strong guy... while holding a hand out to others (not just those you want to just use, but just because it helps them).

[Kaiser Arian XVII]

Well on my best I rate myself 8/10, but when I'm miserable in many aspects I become 6/10. The fact is I'm better than average in many aspects!

 

 

Well according to a recent artical nen cant win eather way. if you treet awoman the way you treat a guy. Masogany if you treat her better Masogany.

on a date you HAVE to read her fekin mind or you are the scum of the earth and she has the right to burn you allive you masoganistic pig.. 

 

You mean Masonry, not Masogeny, right?

 

Before posting, take a look at your page in Moz.FF or Goo.C. The red waves under your words means typo!

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Curse you dyslexia.

[Dio Demon]

Well on my best I rate myself 8/10, but when I'm miserable in many aspects I become 6/10. The fact is I'm better than average in many aspects!

 

 

 

You mean Masonry, not Masogeny, right?

 

Before posting, take a look at your page in Moz.FF or Goo.C. The red waves under your words means typo!

I saw the mistake Arian...

[Eternal Phoenix]

THE HERO OF KVATCH!

 

I just can't...  

 

Could be worst...

 

He could have clicked randomize in Demon's Souls character creator....

 

 

Or done this in Dark Souls...

 

 

[mybudgee]

Men with big egos are a definite no. Also men who think way too higly about their looks.

 

[mousestalker]

Rudeness.
Men who mistreat their mothers.
Lack of ambition.
Bad hygiene
Slovenly

To put it more positively, I like well mannered men who treat their mothers well, are clean and well groomed and who have drive. Courage is also a huge turn on.

Edited to add: A sense of humour is big here. Just as no sense of humour is a deal breaker.

[Johnnie Walker]

On a serious note.

Humor. Nothing is more attractive to me than humor tbh.

[Inquisitor Recon]

Probably me.

[Johnnie Walker]

Probably me.

 

Spoiler

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Rudeness.
Men who mistreat their mothers.
Lack of ambition.
Bad hygiene
Slovenly

To put it more positively, I like well mannered men who treat their mothers well are clean and well groomed and who have drive. Courage is also a huge turn on.

lets see, im rude, i mistreat my mother and i guess im slovenly, 3 out of 5 aint that bad

[Dobby]

 

Spoiler

 

Now now. No need to spend money on such fancy things. A sturdy supermarket paper bag would work just as well.

[Johnnie Walker]

Now now. No need to spend money on such fancy things. A sturdy supermarket paper bag would work just as well.

Yeah we'll just give 'em a sharpy so they can draw whatever face they wanna have.

Ghetto plastic surgery 2015.

[Dio Demon]

Probably me.

You're probably not THAT ugly; also I've heard around the rumour mill women don't find cloppers attractive.

[Uccio]

Well on my best I rate myself 8/10, but when I'm miserable in many aspects I become 6/10. The fact is I'm better than average in many aspects!

 

Interesting. I dated some in my younger years and I´ve been with the same woman now for 20 years, then gotten myself sexually harrassed by women too. Still I don´t know how attractive I am. Maybe average? Or maybe I am just a nice guy. Hard to tell.

[Sigma Tauri]

no car

 

Having no car isn't a turn-off, but an inconvenience depending where you live. If you live in suburban Houston area, it's hard for you to get around. If you live in the Upper East Side provided you can afford it, you can get your stuff delivered plus your apartment probably has a gym too.

[Jock Cranley]

Rudeness.
Men who mistreat their mothers.
Lack of ambition.
Bad hygiene
Slovenly

To put it more positively, I like well mannered men who treat their mothers well are clean and well groomed and who have drive. Courage is also a huge turn on.

 

 

Hmm...

 

What constitutes 'mistreating of mothers'?

 

Sometimes I'm told I do a great job and sometimes I am told I do a crappy one. Which is it?