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[mousestalker]

lets see, im rude, i mistreat my mother and i guess im slovenly, 3 out of 5 aint that bad

Treat your mother better (good for you and for her) and the other two are fixable.

[mousestalker]

Hmm...
 
What constitutes 'mistreating of mothers'?
 
Sometimes I'm told I do a great job and sometimes I am told I do a crappy one. Which is it? 

Who is saying what? If your mother is happy with you, then you are doing a good job.

Smart women look at how their prospects treat their mothers to see what the future will be like. Your relationship with your family is a good predictor of this. This doesn't mean being a "mamas boy" but if you change the furnace filter cheerfully and talk to her at least once a week, then you are someone who is responsible, takes family obligations seriously and can communicate. These are all good things.

[Jock Cranley]

Who is saying what? If your mother is happy with you, then you are doing a good job.

Smart women look at how their prospects treat their mothers to see what the future will be like. Your relationship with your family is a good predictor of this. This doesn't mean being a "mamas boy" but if you change the furnace filter cheerfully and talk to her at least once a week, then you are someone who is responsible, takes family obligations seriously and can communicate. These are all good things.

 

I take heat for leaving her out of my professional and personal planning until said plans are already across the Rubicon. 

[Dermain]

What are chix not into?

 

Why are you asking such a question Bunz? 

 

It's all about body language and reading stuff in the atmosphere that's not particularly express or explicit, there's nothing really random about it.

 

How many people are actually decent at that these days? They spend too much time studying their phones instead of the people they're talking to.

 

Who is saying what? If your mother is happy with you, then you are doing a good job.

Smart women look at how their prospects treat their mothers to see what the future will be like. Your relationship with your family is a good predictor of this. This doesn't mean being a "mamas boy" but if you change the furnace filter cheerfully and talk to her at least once a week, then you are someone who is responsible, takes family obligations seriously and can communicate. These are all good things.

 

Do they take into account any mental disorders the mother may have that may cause mal-treatment (as it were)?

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Treat your mother better (good for you and for her) and the other two are fixable.

lol i havent talked to her in 10 years

[Nattfare]

Who is saying what? If your mother is happy with you, then you are doing a good job.

Smart women look at how their prospects treat their mothers to see what the future will be like. Your relationship with your family is a good predictor of this. This doesn't mean being a "mamas boy" but if you change the furnace filter cheerfully and talk to her at least once a week, then you are someone who is responsible, takes family obligations seriously and can communicate. These are all good things.

Being as I'm in a different country being too busy with taking care of my girlfriend who's in the terminal stages of cancer, I have very little time for even speaking to my family.

[leighzard]

Even the dumbest guy can be attractive if he has muscles and a big heart.

I know some people like dumb and hott, but I can't do it. 

Intelligence is a requirement for me.  I'm not saying you have to discover cold fusion, but I need someone I can talk to.

[leighzard]

Being as I'm in a different country being too busy with taking care of my girlfriend who's in the terminal stages of cancer, I have very little time for even speaking to my family.

I think you get a pass. 

Sorry to hear about what you're going through right now

[mousestalker]

I know some people like dumb and hott, but I can't do it. 
Intelligence is a requirement for me.  I'm not saying you have to discover cold fusion, but I need someone I can talk to.

Julie Brown, for one

[Giant ambush beetle]

 

+ Weak and skinny body

 

Oddly, most good looking girls I know have a very skinny weak boyfriend. 

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

And its BS that guys with muscle cant be smart,

well i know im not

[Uccio]

Depends, I've been powerlifting all my life and had a iq of 135 tested long ago.

[Giant ambush beetle]

Im pretty sure the vast majority of women consider muscle attractive or at least a plus. I am sure of course there are plenty of women that dont, but mostly I think muscle is a plus.

And its BS that guys with muscle cant be smart, or that they are conceited. Dont hate until you get to know someone.

 

I'm a serious weight lifter and couldn't disagree more, most people I've met associate a muscular body with steroid abuse, compensation, spending 24 hours in a gym picking up and putting down heavy objects and being a dumb, shallow narcissist. Most people I've had a conversation with were surprised to find out that none of the things were really true.  

[Giant ambush beetle]

No, I do not agree with

Im pretty sure the vast majority of women consider muscle attractive or at least a plus.

because according to my experiences pretty much all women don't find muscle attractive or a plus. On the contrary.

For some strange reason, many seem to admire the jacked bodies of celebrities (which are often the product of roids) but once they see a similar, natural body in real life they go all ''ewwww''.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Odd really. Muscles are a sign of good genetics, health and fertility. Evolution makes those things attractive. Obviously muscle wont make up for a bunch of other negatives but if your a normal guy with muscle you really shouldn't be having difficulty attracting a girlfriend. So I would say your experience is odd, and not the norm tbh.

or they are a sign of wasting too much time in the gym

[Sigma Tauri]

Im pretty sure the vast majority of women consider muscle attractive or at least a plus. I am sure of course there are plenty of women that dont, but mostly I think muscle is a plus.

And its BS that guys with muscle cant be smart, or that they are conceited. Dont hate until you get to know someone.

 

I don't know. Women like some kind of definition on a man, though not excessively. Other women are attracted to men that have feminine features or are skinny. I don't get it either.

 

Gay men tend to be attracted to muscle slightly more, I think.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Being healthy and in shape is not a waste of time man. Its called not being lazy.

eh, i work out 4 times a week but that doesnt mean i like it or get the appeal of it, its mostly to counter my addiction to italian food

[vometia]

well i can only speak for myself when i say the Y chromasone. not that i dont like guys just that i dont fancy them.

There is that, but there's also Lemmy. Ooh yeah.

Who is saying what? If your mother is happy with you, then you are doing a good job.

Smart women look at how their prospects treat their mothers to see what the future will be like. Your relationship with your family is a good predictor of this. This doesn't mean being a "mamas boy" but if you change the furnace filter cheerfully and talk to her at least once a week, then you are someone who is responsible, takes family obligations seriously and can communicate. These are all good things.

My mother is an awful, abusive psycho. Anyone who gets along with her well is highly suspect.

[Giant ambush beetle]

Odd really. Muscles are a sign of good genetics, health and fertility. Evolution makes those things attractive.

We've crossed that point a long time ago, look whats considered attractive nowadays, catwalk models with the bodies of concentration camp prisoners, women with ridiculous implants all over their bodies, the ''gap'' and so on. We stopped caring about ''evolutionary attractive'' since it stopped being important. For a woman, is its still important to have a physically strong, healthy partner?
Its definitely not a requirement anymore, a few hundred years ago it was.
Also look what most men were into a hundred years ago, very curvy slightly overweight (for today's standard) women, which definitely is an advantage for breeding. Today this definitely does not represent peoples taste anymore.
 

or they are a sign of wasting too much time in the gym

 
That's exactly what I'm talking about. Prejudices.  I spend two hours 6 days a week lifting at home. No gym for me, I have all the weights here at home because I hate gyms and I want to save time.