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[The Jackal]

You would rather make out with a guy that has his own car. His own money. He is a jerk though. He's so much of a jerk that he would rather you walk home in the rain because he doesn't want to get the paint wet on his car kind of a jerk or would rather kiss a male that doesn't have a car or thousands of dollars. But...But..You get a sensitive soul. Who would you rather kiss based emtionally

 

A:Guy with Looks. But treats you like dirt.

 

B: Sensitive guy. May not have Looks

[Dobby]

Is it just only for that one kiss? Or is it more like you're in a relationship with this guy?

 

 

If it's just for one kiss, then Option A.

 

But if it's to be in a relationship with, then Option B

[Laamaa]

Option 3; a female O.o

 

On a serious note though; second guy all the way. A woman doesn't have to depend on a man to get her money. I'd rather work on it myself and go out with a decent guy (or girl)

[mybudgee]

Looks and Money and possession of a car are all synonymous ...??

 

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Looks and Money and possession of a car are all synonymous ...??

 

my problem is they are all synonimous with being a jerk apparently...

[mybudgee]

Science ...Why?

[mousestalker]

Looks are unimportant.

Is the sensitive guy whiny?

If so, then the jerk.

If by sensitive you really mean considerate, then the sensitive guy.

It's pretty simple, I do not want Mr. sensitive who is so into his feels. I do not want Mr. Jerk who is so into himself.

I want door #3, the guy who is interested in me, interested in things I like and wants to spend time with me.

I want someone who is not crushed by the very first hint of opposition. Someone who gives up at the first obstacle. And really do not want someone who whines about it afterwards.

Buck up buttercup.

[Why Yes of Course]

This seems like a really legit project. All full of science and stuff.

[Farangbaa]

Face it, people, the ultimate strategy for a woman would be:

Bang the hot, insensitive guy. Get pregnant.
Marry the sensitive guy, tell him it's his.

This happens way more than you'd think. One of my professors of Human Genetics and Genomics mentioned studies in which staggering numbers as high as 2 out of 5 children not being raised by their father, but by someone who though he was the father.

Results were byproducts of the research, btw. It was mostly research that looked for the origins of rare, genetic diseases. They'd get DNA from the mother and the father, and compare it to the child's to see which parent was the carrier. It turned out a lot of the men delivering their DNA had no genetic relationship to the child.

Oh and now, for the kicker:
This is why men are jealous. Motherhood is always certain, fatherhood always a mystery.

Sidenote I should make: in pure fitness terms the best strategy for a male is marry the hot woman and sleep around secretly.

Nature is evil.

disclaimer: not saying any of these behaviours, the cheating nor the jealousy, are moraly or ethically just. We should rise above it, as we've done with many other things.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

. Motherhood is always certain

what if one of the 200 women you slept with 9 months ago anonymously leaves a baby at your doorstep?

[Farangbaa]

what if one of the 200 women you slept with 9 months ago anonymously leaves a baby at your doorstep?

I should've adjusted to the internet.

In most cases. Solo alleyway deliveries not included.

In most normal deliveries of a child the mother will be registered. It comes out of her, you know?

Besides, that's not the point.

No man can trick a woman into raising a kid that isn't hers by claiming she's the mother. (internet adjustment: unless she was raped while in a coma)
A woman could trick any man she had sex with into thinking a child was his. Could, because, DNA testing.

[leighzard]

Is the sensitive guy whiny?

If so, then the jerk.
 

Yup.  Nailed it.

"Sensitive" is not always a great characteristic.  I prefer "empathetic" and "caring."  Sensitive guys write really bad poetry, show up at places when you're with another dude, and think even the slightest change in your mood is about something they did.

 

Also, what's the fixation with cars?  I noticed it in the Bunz thread too.  I'm not in highschool.  I have a car.  I don't need the person I date to have a car.  Having a car in a big city is stupid impractical, too.  You don't want to know how much I had to pay for parking permits in Boston.  And if the jerk guy's car is so nice that he doesn't want to mess up the paint, then I think he's probably mismanaging money because he could have bought something cooler, like a beach house (and that should be the selling point here, not his car), or he has a really scary bad car with a crap paint job that can't handle a little rain.  Seriously, only fifteen year olds care if the person their dating has a car or not.

 

Oh and now, for the kicker:
This is why men are jealous. Motherhood is always certain, fatherhood always a mystery.

Concealed ovulation is an evolutionary godsend.  (seewhatididthere?)

This man speaks the truth.   Women are jealous too though.  We're more concerned about "emotional" cheating though than having a partner sleep around.  If he's just banging other chicks you aren't losing resources.  If he becomes emotionally close with someone else you're losing resources if he's doing nice things for her like buying her lunch or fixing her car, and you run the risk of him leaving you and you get nothing. 

This of course is a lot of generalizing.  Obviously every person and relationship is different and we've changed a lot as a species sociopolitically, but our genes haven't quite caught up with that yet.

 

If you marry the HOT woman, then why do you need to cheat??!!!

Maximize reproductive opportunities.

Plus you can't be certain the hot chick isn't cheating on you.

[Farangbaa]

If you marry the HOT woman, then why do you need to cheat??!!!

I don't. I was speaking purely in terms of fitness:
 
http://en.wikipedia....tness_(biology)

Interesting btw you only feel like commenting on the cheating guy. The cheating woman who tricks a man into raising a child that isn't his? Not worthy to comment on.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

If you marry the HOT woman, then why do you need to cheat??!!!

variety?

[Farangbaa]

but our genes haven't quite caught up with that yet.

This is key.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

But why????

because monogamy is not a natural human condition?

[mousestalker]

This of course is a lot of generalizing.  Obviously every person and relationship is different and we've changed a lot as a species sociopolitically, but our genes haven't quite caught up with that yet.

Or our jeans. If you don't believe this, wait twenty years...

[ruggly]

Would the jerk at least be willing to pay off my student loans?

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

Or our jeans. If you don't believe this, wait twenty years...

the return of skinny jeans? god help us all....